UPDATE: My mistake was asking her why. The whole equality/princess privileges pisses me off. I need to work on being more Stoic. I still let some things beyond my control bother me. Everything I need to know about improving myself is already laid out here in TRP.

  1. Lift
  2. Keep improving my finances/career
  3. Act like a man/leader

Thanks for the suggestions. Lots of good stuff here.

tldr; I quickly searched ask TRP before posting. I didn't see the answer I am seeking. I already go on coffee dates and hiking dates and other free dates sometimes. How do you eliminate the women that expect you to pay before even wasting time on the first date?

I went on an after work date earlier this week. We had the same number of drinks and split an appetizer. I was thinking of another date and maybe plating her. Texted her today and she said it's not going to work. Asked her for honest feedback. She said I did not pay and that is a deal breaker for her.

That pissed me off. Women get equal pay and they still expect us to fund the dating. Fuck that.

Is there an easy way for me to find out which women expect a subsidized social life before the date? I have enough women I am talking to I don't need to waste my time on women like this.