Should I hire a prostitute?

fromdario · 2015-12-25T16:59:49+00:00

I'd not recommend it. Have friends that went that route and once you pop, you can't stop. At least in the case of the people I know. Feeling low and lazy to go out and hunt? They call a pro. Rather than cultivate the rewards through hard earned effort and skill. Much more rewarding in the long run if you ask me... But I've never done it so maybe I'm not the best person to dispense advice.

SarsaparillaCorona · 2015-12-25T14:38:06+00:00

Yes, if it's affecting your ability to approach, do so. I did once to try it, and it's very easy. Find the back page listing website for your country, find a girl you like for a price you can afford, call her and meet her, typically it's an in-call because it's safer. You pay her, she 'services' you and you part ways an hour/half hour later a non virgin.

Prices vary depending where you live. I live in a holiday destination so there's lots of asian tourists who come here for an escort holiday on the cheap, but YMMV.

prodigy2throw · 2015-12-25T18:16:27+00:00

Yes it'll ease your mind a bit.

EntitledShitHead · 2015-12-25T16:09:21+00:00

Nah, bro. You deserve the best, high quality bitches for free. Don't pay for that shit, it'll just destroy your ego.

U96Q69 · 2015-12-25T17:22:37+00:00

Never hire a prostitute, you pay for spend time with a female companionship.

Apexk9 · 2015-12-25T19:00:46+00:00

Yes hire a whore.

Get a few realize women ain't nothing special.

Find a local review board. If you get caught never admit to paying for sex. You're paying for her time/company.

Ojisan1 · 2015-12-25T16:57:38+00:00

Go to the RSD YouTube channels and practice getting over approach anxiety.

And find a lower SMV chick to get past your virginity for free, don't lower yourself to paying for it. It'll hurt your self esteem and you don't need any hits to your self esteem, from what I can tell. And you won't really learn anything that valuable from the experience to make it actually worth paying for, anyway.

Don't worry about what number your age is and that you're a virgin at that age - that's comparing yourself to other people in an unproductive way. Just worry about your self improvement, get the "achievements unlocked" of overcoming your anxiety and fucking a 3 or 4 just so you can get that done. Trust me, you'll feel better having pride in accomplishing something for yourself, instead of reverting to paying for it. And you'll gain from the experience because of the work an time you put into it, which will lead you to the next achievement, and many more after that.

full_package · 2015-12-25T20:29:46+00:00

You want to jump to Z while you have a problem with an A. Putting dick in a girl is quite natural and while you might fumble once or twice before you get a decent lay it should be the least of your worries now.

Work on your confidence approaching, chatting, setting up next dates, bouncing between places, keeping and sexualizing the conversation, isolating, escalating, kissing, kino, heading to either of your places, escalating more, getting around LMR, etc.

Take it step by step.

Be realistic at each step and admit to yourself that it's unlikely you'll get to the next step with this girl, but if you persist you'll "level up" at some point. Have abundance mentality and DGAF approach.

When you'll get to the point of taking your dick out, it'll be just another step. Again, the first time it might or might not work out. And out of all the steps you have to take, it's usually not the hardest one (forgive the pun).

To answer your question, no, I think you're still too young and it's very normal to be a virgin at 20. Read some (but not much) PUA literature and spend several months practicing multiple approaches a week. Chances are, you'll progress. If you plateau for months and cannot get through a particular step, reread sidebar and analyze yourself honestly. You're doing something wrong.

If at that point you still think it's the your thoughts of lousy performance during unlikely sex that is slowing you down, then fine, go ahead and find a hooker.

Drogba006 · 2015-12-25T22:35:29+00:00

If you want to, then do it. But if you're having this morality and all you're doing is thinking about it then you probably shouldn't.

Think like this, you're a virgin, sex is special. If you purchase it instead of "earning it" or whatever from a woman than wants it, I imagine you're gonna feel like shit afterwards. You'll hate yourself more than you do now.

Save the prostitute thing for later when you've chilled out about sex.

You're 20? Haha, bro I was 22 before I started getting pussy. Just take opportunities when they arise. I don't get into the "let's troll some bars every single weekend" just take care of yourself and when opportunities arise make sure you are aware enough to capitalize on it.

PUAtalksRP · 2015-12-26T02:34:20+00:00

I wouldnt personally, esp not as a virgin. face your fears.

[deleted] · 2015-12-26T04:50:16+00:00

Would it be your Christmas present? A little late for that now.

sadnesspickle · 2015-12-25T15:41:57+00:00

It depends what you're after, but generally you can pick up a very attractive escort for around $150/hr - $200/hr.

If it's less than legal where you are, and look up reviews on the woman if you're going by Backpage or some site like that. I'd recommend against Backpage, to be honest. BP will be enticing because it's cheap, but also has higher legal risk.
I'd recommend if you're new: go to a well reviewed agency, as those women will more than likely be screened, experienced, and far LESS* likely to be a sting op. The agency will also provide information on "activities" the women are in to
Avoid discussing pricing/sex activities over the phone, in public, or at all. If the woman tries to get you to agree to "an amount per activity", or a direct exchange, peace out of there. REMEMBER it isn't illegal to pay a woman for her time, so long as it isn't specified that said time is contingent on sex. Whatever happens during that time is also legal, so long as there is not a discussion of an "additional fee for sex".

empatheticapathetic · 2015-12-25T17:48:33+00:00

26 Virgin here. Going to get a prostitute in the new year. Always been terrified of escalating because of performing badly, ruined countless situations over many years. I had a good situation with another Virgin a few months ago pre TRP and I blew it due to the same reason. Now she's riding the CC HARD and I'm still a failure. Fuck it. Get a prostitute.

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Throwaway244555 · 2015-12-25T18:43:01+00:00

Hiring prostitues is blue pill af. So what if the girl didn't enjoy having sex with you? Stop having self-limiting beliefs.

Title	Should I hire a prostitute?
Author	RKingZ
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Date	December 25, 2015 2:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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