Sloppy Seconds?

salezman12 · 2017-05-02T17:37:41+00:00

Me and my buddy often fuck the same chicks. Sometimes at the same time, and pass them back and forth, or just have a foursome. Get over it bro, its just pussy. Stop involving emotion, thats what bitches do.

aftsov · 2017-05-02T15:59:40+00:00

I'd have a foursome where we trade girls. That'd be fun

apskidb · 2017-05-02T17:32:10+00:00

unless she's a virgin someone has always already been there. at least you know the reason and have an idea of std risk etc.

i wouldn't let it bother you. better the devil you know than the devil you don't.

quicklogaccount · 2017-05-02T17:40:15+00:00

Accounting for your clarification:

Fucking? Cool if the social circle doesn't oppose it, at this point I'm pretty comfortable giving up lays to keep things smooth with social circles. I'd trade a few circles I'm in for threesomes though. lol
LTRing? No way if I see her ex often. It triggers way too many issues.

Picking up a girl in a party after someone has picked her up?
Some parties allow it, but some don't. Keep a keen eye if you do, I got sucker punched because of it.

SocialJusticeWhiner · 2017-05-02T15:45:17+00:00

More info needed

Terdmuffin · 2017-05-02T18:02:53+00:00

There's enough women available that I generally try to avoid women who have been with guys I know. Makes things a lot simpler

screaming_nachos · 2017-05-02T22:05:08+00:00

Kind of depends on you and if you think its a big deal. I've had MMF threesomes and couple swaps. I fucked some of my friends' girls, during and after they were seeing each other. Never turned out good. Fast way to lose friends.

I was fucking my wife's best friend for a bit until she fucked my brother. That was my line (apparently not his), so I didn't touch her again.

I had a dude pull a gun on me and got into multiple fights because guys thought I banged their girl (even after they broke up and even if I didn't) just because people knew of my rep.

If you can live with the consequences, go for it. Social game is the best game, but also the most risky (and why I love it so much).

Wife is bi. Her and/or I fucked pretty much all of her female friends/couples. Got the reputation of the "creepy couple" because some liked to spread some rumors and jealousy/buyer remorse/a few couples broke up (like it was my fault she climbed me in front of her boyfriend)/whatever the fuck. Pretty sure it got started when one of the girls asked to stay with us when she broke up her boyfriend. She fucked me over and over and when she went back to him (pretty sure because she was out of money, no job and we wouldn't pay for her shit), I was the creep and the bad guy. Whatever.

Took a 6 year break from swinging due to injury and illness on my part and mostly have gotten rid of the reputation. Our social circle now, I really like them and trying not to fuck it up. It's hard. One girl I met through a friend was ready to go home with me and my wife is like "She's getting married to so-and-so." I just had never met her.... oops. Second encounter, she was flirting with me so much in front of fiance, he got up and walked out of the room and played video games with my kids. We're going to the wedding in a couple weeks but he hasn't been around lately. Wonder why? Not going to lie, if she wants to fuck me on her wedding day, I totally will just for the story.

My wife's former beta orbiter married some HB8 alpha widow with 2 kids. Had 2 more, but she is still bangin' hot. Wife let it slip that we were back in the game, and she has been all over me last few times we got together. Last time she grabbed my dick and had her hand up my shirt in front of her husband who I'm 100% sure is Mono/non swinger. His look was that of dumbfounded. Had I escalated further, I would have ploughed her. Probably on his bed.

Bad part, all of our kids are friends with theirs and we have all been friends for years. Wife doesn't help with her, "You should let her fuck you, she's hot." This one is tough because she is just enough crazy to get my dick real hard. I also don't give two shits about him and never really have. But the fall out can affect my kids and I don't like that at all.

When you're young, it doesn't matter as much. Get new friends/move to a new city. When you're older, the Risk/Reward calculation becomes much harder. Don't have the time or the energy to reboot my social life. Besides, had enough guns pointed at me for one life time. Don't need jealous dudes showing up at my door especially with kids around.

NolanKnowstheTruth · 2017-05-02T19:19:30+00:00

I personally can't do it. If She's done anything with someone I know, She is automatically damaged goods.

AlaskaSam737 · 2017-05-02T20:49:16+00:00

Welcome to the Eskimo brotherhood. There aren't just sloppy seconds. Here's the rundown.

• Sloppy seconds • Turgid thirds • Freaky fourths • Filthy fifths • Sickening sixths • Sorry sevenths • Icky eighths • Nasty ninths

I'm going to hell for this.

hatefulreason · 2017-05-03T06:52:59+00:00

It doesnt count as sloppy seconds unless you go steady with her

BlueBlus · 2017-05-02T22:19:24+00:00

Unless you fuck a virgin you'll always have someones sloppy seconds

htbf · 2017-05-02T23:04:39+00:00

Unless she's a virgin, you are always at least a second.

Whether it's sloppy or not is up to you.

walawalawa · 2017-05-03T01:42:43+00:00

I don't do it. A girl I gamed when she was engaged broke up. Then was with another guy.

Now she's just a friend to me...She is hot, comes over, is up for doing thing alone and together.

I just cannot escalate with her...total turn off.

Title	Sloppy Seconds?
Author	youngboomin
Upvotes	9
Comments	22
Date	May 2, 2017 3:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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