8 month LTR, HB 8, 20. Great in bed, the type of girl you’d want your parents to meet, and is very compliant. Relationship has been nothing but peaches and cream up until about month 7.

At month 7 up until now, she became more demanding, less compliant, more jealous of female attention I receive, and paranoid about me cheating. Basically, more bitchy and insecure.

The final straw was when I brought her to a music festival with some of my best friends (girls and guys) and she ended up smacking me in the face, throwing a drink at me, and yelling at the top of her lungs at me (in front of my friends) when she found me sitting on the ground next to a girl friend of mine (we had history). After this, she wouldn’t leave me alone to the point where I had to get security to detain her and had to get my hotel room.

Hard or soft next? I’m leaning more towards hard because shouldn’t an LTR that I invest time and money and energy into be one where I am 100% respected?