Text from LTR

AwakenedSovereign · 2017-04-03T19:58:19+00:00

Why the fuck is your LTR having dinner with an ex BF?

That's not just your regular every-day shit test. That's blatant disrespect.

"if that makes you uncomfortable but I want to be honest."

Sure, I want to be honest too. I'm just not feeling this anymore. I wish you all the best.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-04-03T20:46:53+00:00

You mean Ex LTR.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-04-03T21:18:48+00:00

No woman just meets a man for "just dinner"

She is going to meat up with him, not meet up with him.

No woman who actually respects you would even consider this

[deleted] · 2017-04-03T21:44:18+00:00

Just ghost, I would not even answer the text or break up with her. Simply disappear.

Poptart318 · 2017-04-03T20:51:44+00:00

Update us

Bambam22bam · 2017-04-03T21:29:33+00:00

Stick with your plan. You're exhausted. Let her get dinner with him. See her tomorrow and next her. You don't have to tell her why, just say it isn't working for you anymore. Downgrade to a plate if you wish, but I prefer clean breaks with women like this.

SkimSTi · 2017-04-03T20:18:31+00:00

yikes.... thats pretty shitty. question, before things got exclusive. did you guys have any talks about exes? like did she mention at any point she still talks to this guy? or was it just out of the blue? because thats kind of shady if it came out of right field..

epthewizard · 2017-04-04T14:55:29+00:00

Update: I told her I would come over after work and went there. We immediately fucked and then I put my clothes on and told her I didn't have feelings for her anymore. She stared at me and then I walked out the door. She chased me down the hall to the stairs and started screaming. I just kept walking. I forgot she got us John Mayer tickets on Wednesday and she was flipping about that too but whatever. I probably should have done it Thursday because I really like John Mayer. Oh well. Good thing is I leave the country for a week on Saturday so she can't try to catch me at my apartment. A lot of you guys said wait to do it but if I waited I might have changed my mind. Couldn't give her time to manipulate me.

saladon · 2017-04-04T00:26:54+00:00

Jesus christ lol.

I can see why you didn't have the energy for her.

Drop her like a sack of potatoes. NOW.

[deleted] · 2017-04-03T22:21:50+00:00

It would depend but this it what I would probably do. Without seeming butthurt tell you are looking forward to seeing her if not tomorrow then soon. If she still goes on the date(because that's what it is) either next or demote. If she makes the right choice then you can carry on, but she never gets a ring with this behavior.

walawalawa · 2017-04-04T01:32:47+00:00

WHAT THE FUCK!???? This is a LTR???

Plate said something like this to me. I said....very clearly in text: "FUCK OFF".... softer version: "k" disappear for like 3 months. Can you do that? Do you have the balls to walk away like that because that's exactly what you need to do RIGHT NOW.

You have to save that response to the perfect moment. This is that perfect moment for you.

Walk away. Any girls who's trying this "Triangulation" jealousy plotline needs to be hard nexted and fast.

Guys....read this guy's post and her text again and commit it to memory.

This is how ALL girls act. There's always an "ex" and "orbiter" some guy. I experienced this. I lost my cool---didn't work. I kept my cool---she kept doing it.

Only solution was to downgrade her, bang her, be firm with her and walk away when I got a text like this.

3 months for me after navigating crap like this. Plate brought a guy out to one of my party nights....as a "friend". I kept my cool, befriended the guy, found out plate met him at a class and exchanged numbers.... AWALT. Orbiter grooming.

A week later I hard nexted. Haven't spoken to her in 3 months.

You must have other women on the go and the balls to walk away. If you want to do so in a nuclear manner....FUCK OFF is the way to go.

If you want to be more mysterious, simply respond with "k"... and that's it.

if you're meeting her...be aloof....bang one more time and then never contact her again.

This is bullshit. "ex...I stayed friends with...." = orbiter for a rainy day.

Ranger_Mitch · 2017-04-03T20:45:53+00:00

You don't say how long you've been with this girl? Assuming not so long? I'd tell her to go hang with her ex and just not reply to any further texts from her.

bigk12345 · 2017-04-04T04:08:51+00:00

She is a plate now. I would personally just move on to other women. If you want, you can fucking her for a bit but the damage is already done. She has absolutely zero respect for you.

Look at it this way.

You were gone for the entire week. Instead of chasing your cock as soon as your plane lands, she tells you she is not going to be able to see you after not seeing you for a week.

You are not her priority. She would rather see another guy over you. She swung to another branch and openly shows you are not her priority.

Her actions show you are the last thing she worries about in her life. She would rather go have dinner with a side of "ex's " dick rather fuck you after not seeing you for a week.

Ghost. Withdraw commitment.

raisins3142 · 2017-04-04T12:47:48+00:00

How old is this chick meaning how long ago was high school?

It's fishy she didn't tell you before or first text but then spilt beans. It means she knew it was wrong and was hiding it initially.

RPShitlord · 2017-04-03T20:37:01+00:00

I don't suggest dumping her right now, but seeing ex BFs is for plates, not GFs.

Don't spend any money for her birthday. Just get her skittles.

saladon · 2017-04-04T09:04:38+00:00

It's a desperate attempt at salvaging her position by going nuclear.

Very akin to the "If you cant even do this for me then maybe we should break up!" shit test.

Both cases are unacceptable red flags that clearly show how pathetic and disgusting they are, but know that it comes from desperation of losing what you are to her (ie. pigeonholing).

Respond with amused mastery, but feel free to show how disgusted you feel. That last text from her sounds like a fucking 4-year old trying to explain to her parents why she needs to stay up late and eating jars of nutella.

The fact that you couldn't see this coming from a mile away shows you have absolutely no idea how to screen girls. Work on your frame and fuck other girls to restart things.

savagedealer · 2017-04-03T19:54:47+00:00

Alright let's not complicate this. today is cool meet me at my place bring a bottle of wine and wear something fun .

Don't let her get to your ego no ones too tired to fuck . Stop making excuses right now is the perfect reason to cut to the chase your exhausted can't go out but not exhausted enough to not fuck.

Title	Text from LTR
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Comments	38
Date	April 3, 2017 7:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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