So after her being a bitch and telling me to move on etc, I tell her, I should have moved on when I knew she wasn't the one. She goes from, move on, never talk to me again, to explain what you meant by that..NOW.

I tell her, she was too emotional and always tried messing with my emotions(constantly shit testing(Didn't use this terminology)), the fact that she was extremely kinky in nature, gave amazing blowjobs and sex, that she had cheated on me once with an ex boyfriend, and now another time when I was away for a work secondment on the other side of the world, that she let me do coke off her tits and ass, and that she had been with 10 guys, was a red flag to me that she might cheat on me in the future.

She obviously reacts, and gets very defensive and wants to know more. She says this has hurt her more than any pain her cheating could have hurt me, and can't believe that I would continue the relationship despite knowing I couldn't marry her. She asks me how many girls I've been with again as she always does so that she can "judge" me like I'm judging her. I've just ignored her on this and she is demanding an answer. I want her to know what I know about double standards and girls being sluts not being the ones for me, and am tempted to send her excerpts from Chateau Heartiste. (below) I know this would be hurtful to her, and doesn't really accomplish much except making her feel like a giant slut, but I just feel like she should know. What does TRP think?

BTW I am completely detached from wanting her back at this point, its not a matter of trying to get her back, only do I "teach her a lesson" or let her be the slut that I know she is?

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/12/29/its-easy-to-identify-a-slut/

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/08/02/identifying-sluts-the-science/

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/04/13/double-standards/