Keeping it brief, swallowed TRP, and now everyone I date becomes 150% submissive. I pick people because they have interesting and feisty personalities, verbal sparring, shit tests etc. and once in a relationship, since TRP, they quickly become submissive and only seem to care about making me happy.

Sounds like everyone's dream, but really it's quite dull and I quickly lose interest in them. Instead of shit tests I get stuff after fucking them like "you're my best friend", "do I please you enough", etc.

I dated one person who shit tested me non-stop and I enjoyed the challenge, again by the end of it a soft next had her coming back in tears and saying she was in love with me etc. etc. and lost all her fiery nature and turned into a kitten.

Am I choosing the wrong people or do I need to tone back the TRP a bit? It's frustrating.