What was the most important thing that improved you dating life?

redhorndog · 2020-05-16T08:02:57+00:00

Not give a fuck if she leaves or not. Less thinking on your part which leaves you more energy for more productive work.

Beyond that lifting. Shit the difference is massive. Initially a cougar or two would compliment me then it progressed to young ones.

I swear on days after I deadlift it's like my confidence skyrockets and I feel like I'm taller even though my posture is the same.

AuberyBitoni · 2020-05-16T12:36:39+00:00

Showing them that you have options and willing to walk away.

theunconquored · 2020-05-16T11:22:39+00:00

Being bold. Shockingly bold. When the time is right.

But also, being subtle. Very subtle. When it suits me.

TheGirlGetter9000 · 2020-05-16T12:24:48+00:00

Repetition. Had to "get in the reps" so to say to develop that confidence and familiarity with dating.

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2020-05-16T12:39:08+00:00

Putting on 30+ pounds of muscle over three years.

SalporinRP · 2020-05-16T18:09:54+00:00

Treating dates like the casual fun thing they are. Before I got a bit experienced I used to get pretty nervous before dates and overthink things. I'm pretty sure a lot of newbies here are the same.

But after some practice I just started to treat first dates in a much more casual manner.

There's a bar near me that has a rooftop area and amazing liquor selection. I take the majority of my first dates there.

Even if the date is shitty I can still say "hey at least I had a good cocktail".

HereToReadDirty · 2020-05-16T14:26:46+00:00

Just because you’re not one persons type, doesn’t mean you’re not someone else’s.

goldenpoopstain · 2020-05-16T08:36:27+00:00

Honestly just confidence. I've never been ugly, always considered my looks about a 7 but swag was like a 5. I smashed a few in highschool but never really made the first moves unless they were painfully obviously into me and I felt confident that day. I started lifting and got to about an 8 and eventually just started shooting my shot. I've smashed a ton of young 20s that in my mind I could not attain but through volume my percentage of warm approach is about 70%+, all girls 7/10 or higher.

TLDR high average looks nerd went from 6 to a 7.5-8 with consistent quality lays with LIFTING and CONFIDENCE TO APPROACH

jojojijo333 · 2020-05-16T08:22:29+00:00

Always going for the kill

alfred311 · 2020-05-16T14:49:19+00:00

Eating healthy food and lifting, everybody knows the importance of it but no ones doing it or lacks motivation, thanks to my oneitis who broke my heart who brought me to the red pill

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-05-16T14:13:24+00:00

Dating multiple women at the same time and letting them all know.

Youngyoda89 · 2020-05-16T17:39:25+00:00

Accepting my masculinity and role in society as a leader. The epiphany that I had that women want YOU to make the move this is on a subconscious level but once you get some experience you can feel their bodies calling you. And that is then when YOU select which one you want to dig out.

WIA20XX · 2020-05-16T14:15:56+00:00

Learning how to search for previously covered topics. My body count skyrocketed.

FawnBrambles · 2020-05-16T10:16:42+00:00

Becoming a bouncer. And then going into fire/rescue.

spartan_samurai · 2020-05-16T10:53:50+00:00

Approach with confidence.

when_its_too_late · 2020-05-16T16:26:25+00:00

Not caring about dating.

Whitefarmer · 2020-05-16T20:28:01+00:00

Not giving a single flying fuck about women

Nevermindever · 2020-05-16T11:10:53+00:00

Getting scholarship in genetics/bioinformatics, with the largest sum given to students in my country. I still am kinda dumb, bet previously everyone though im dumb either, now im alone on this. Very interesting experience. Im now fucking 10/10 gal that completely cut me off before i got that thing, and now she acts like im her biggest love, sends real letters and shit. Ok, i would do the same in her shoes, so hopefully will spend the rest of my life with her.

Also, the fact my luck was shared all across the fb likely played a part in general opinion. Feels a bit like when you read about peeps suddenly getting rich, but i am at least a year off of getting rich. Experience is a bit surreal tbh. Yet, again, i know quite well my IQ is belove average person i know.

Title	What was the most important thing that improved you dating life?
Author	CrazyVaccum
Upvotes	29
Comments	54
Date	May 16, 2020 7:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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