When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lost

Startlivingfornow · 2019-01-27T09:27:21+00:00

Place hands on her hips. She either steps away or you get an easy make-out/easy number or lay if you play it right

embracingtheredpill · 2019-01-27T11:34:58+00:00

Face Mecca and start praying

NeuroBoss31 · 2019-01-27T09:33:49+00:00

You do exactly what you're thinking you should not do.

rashnull · 2019-01-27T11:00:15+00:00

Just look at me and wave. I’ll take over!

MurkyArtichoke · 2019-01-27T12:40:11+00:00

When clubbing you have to take into account that women are generally extremely unpredictable. Most of them are with a group of friends, and they are out there to show-off and flirt with guys. They want attention. The "grinding against you" thing is basically russian roulette, either she will enjoy it if you start grinding on her, or she will turn around and tell you to fuck off. I also remember how puzzled i was when a girl first started backing up her ass against me, and i responded by placing my hands on her hips, only for her to turn around and then literally shove me away. It's bizarre. Then again, the "grinding on you" is also potentially an extremely easy gateway to an easy lay.

Wolveryn · 2019-01-27T14:13:10+00:00

I pull her in closer, get her grinding on me... I enjoy letting her feel me get hard. I tend to put my hand through her hair, and lightly pull her head back to the side so she has to look back into my eyes while she's grinding.

Its just part of the dance of attraction, she testing to see if you're a man who takes what he wants how he wants or a sheep who follows the rules of a good submissive citizen.

Women can't get wet for the latter. She realises you're a pussy... she knows you can't get her wet... and she will therefore never fuck you.

0io- · 2019-01-27T09:52:41+00:00

If she's grinding up against you on the dance floor and rubbing her ass on your dick it's a pretty strong indication of interest. After a song or two of that, you should grab her by the hand and lead her out of the club and then find out where she wants to go next. "Hey, it's too hot in here. Let's go outside. Do you live near here? Let's get an uber back to your place/my place/xyz hotel. What's your name?"

Razzoz6 · 2019-01-27T15:26:01+00:00

Go for it like this

adonis_syche · 2019-01-27T13:15:59+00:00

I did this once, don't recommend it, but you be the judge.

I usually carry a lighter with me wherever I go. So this chick starts dancing and grinding like it's 1789 and Versailles gon' fall. As she started grinding, I took my lighter out and ever so slightly started sheepishly putting the light behind the ass-crack. Took her a few minutes to realize what was happening. I laughed, she laughed, we both laughed, the bartender laughed as well, i went home and fucked the bartender. jk, lmao, fucked the chick. it was a good night.

alpha-zach · 2019-01-27T16:33:32+00:00

Put yourself in her shoes.

If you had the balls to act like Chad, walk up to a girl and grind your dick into her, would you want her to turn into a dead fish because she doesn’t want to embarrass you by being too sexual?

Or would you want her to get in the moment, realize it’s not public sex, it’s “just dancing,” and act like complete slut?

In clubs, women get the right to embrace MAJOR fantasies without judgement.

If you can’t switch your mentality quick enough out of this blue pill mindset, a good second plan is to make a joke. Throw your hands up and say something like, “Woah, I’m not that kind of girl.” Smirk. Then after she laughs, grab her hips and grind.

Reading your other comments, it’s clear you have confidence issues. Stand tall. Stand strong. Start acting like an alpha asshole. Just do things. You’ll make mistakes. It won’t work everytime. But sometimes it will work. You’ll eventually figure out what works and what doesn’t and it will build confidence. Pick out the other alphas in the room and watch them. Imitate their actions.

Velebit · 2019-01-27T09:34:57+00:00

You are not neurotypical. If you don't instinctively 'get' actions going on in danceclubs by body language and facial expressions you are not neurotypical and should focus on daygame.

Think about it like this: club game has 30% of women, daygame has 100% of women.

Club game is largely just animal instincts and people either got it or don't. You will never be able to close the gap between you and a natural in the club setting. What you need to do is focus on your strenghts.

itsBoundless · 2019-01-27T11:36:58+00:00

Same thing happens to me I have no idea what to do.

[deleted] · 2019-01-27T18:19:15+00:00

I'm the same way. Had this happen the other night as I was walking through the dance floor. I took the girl by the hand and said 'let me see your face'. Turn her around and she asked, 'what, do you not think I'm pretty?' I replied 'didnt get a good look at you, I'm not dancing with just anyone'. She seemed to like that but honestly, it's still awkward to me when women just back their ass up to me without a face to face smile or some hi, but then again I don't frequent the club much.

TRP8myfeels · 2019-01-27T20:25:09+00:00

Give her the trump maneuver

aShiftyLad · 2019-01-27T16:05:42+00:00

Whip your dick out and stick it in her pantie-less ass. :)

but seriously, major IoI, just grab hips or move into her and dance. Think of it as a basic.. veeery basic... test to see if you are even worth fucking and can take a hint.

Kimdabrim · 2019-01-28T09:19:21+00:00

Never go straight into grinding.

Pick target (don't hamster, if they were giving you IOIs go for it).
Move in close within her sight.
Hold eye contact and wait for her to return it.
Move towards her slowly while dancing and holding eye contact.
If you make it chest to chest immediately grab her hips.
You're in. Maybe do some front grinding then twirl her around and go for the booty.

Title	When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lost
Author	SidewaysCircle
Upvotes	52
Comments	51
Date	January 27, 2019 9:11 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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