Saw an IG post by my elementary school friend. She's 32 now, divorced and a single mom.

The post was a video of her practicing a dance choreography with 2 others in a classroom. She looked great. Flat tummy, hot pants, almost showing some abs (could be lighting). Yet, I don't think I'll ever be interested in her vs. a girl in her 20s.

This got me thinking. If we men took care of ourselves, picked up a cool hobby or talent like dancing, it undoubtedly will improve our SMV. However, it doesn't appear to be the case for women, their SMV is much more correlated to their age?

I could be biased since I know her background. Thoughts?