Why do girls..

TheBadGoy · 2020-09-20T21:57:49+00:00

The worst part is when you feel guilty and start to treat them better things go downhill fast

comcain · 2020-09-20T20:06:46+00:00

Because they want what they can't have. They do the same thing back to guys.

PM_Happy_Puppy_Pics · 2020-09-20T22:16:18+00:00

You have to realize that women are emotional, not logical like you. She needs to feel that rollercoaster of excitement. When you leave her on read, she loses her mind because she doesn't know why you did that. Are you mad at her? Are you with another woman? Did she say something wrong?

She NEEDS these feelings to feel attracted to you. If you are too nice then she will get bored.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-09-20T22:30:03+00:00

The harder to get the person is the more you value him/her. It’s the same for men and women. Why do people want diamonds? They’re rare and hard to obtain.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2020-09-21T07:56:17+00:00

"Treat them mean to keep them keen..." was the motto back in my day.

Some 20+ years later and it still holds up.

Dodechaedron · 2020-09-20T21:45:05+00:00

They have low self esteem and they want to be punished (for what, they only know)

pehsxten · 2020-09-21T01:38:56+00:00

You ever play a game then lose to a boss. You try to figure out what you did wrong. So you pay more attention and try other methods that might work.

blacklightsleaze · 2020-09-21T11:23:41+00:00

Ignoring them/leaving them on read/responding with 24 hr delay makes them feel they are not worth the attention, so they try to win your attention. So you play this stupid game until she is in your bed trying to win your attention. I don't know some girls are just like that.

For example there are girls where you need to be sharp and act faster, no silly games and stuff otherwise you miss her emotional dtf window.

Some of them actually like a little bit of good/cocky guy without too much teasing/bad boy vibes.

Playing them IRL you can learn how to sense them overtime and how adjust your strategy. Playing online you don't really know, because of the limited information and you have to gamble lol.

akr3p1 · 2020-09-20T21:21:18+00:00

Same happens to me

BurntYams · 2020-09-21T02:52:44+00:00

Women want what they can’t have. Simple as that.

changy15 · 2020-09-21T16:37:16+00:00

Read sidebar material you wouldn’t be asking this question. Girl I live with was messaging me yesterday, I left her on read all day, she messaged me like 8 times I never responded, when she got home we bullshitted about a few things and then inevitably it came out, “why did you leave me on read, that shit is disrespectful” the whole time smiling big as hell. I fucked up by saying I was sleeping, bc I was because I’m sick, but under normal circumstances I would have just ignored it and changed topic or come back with “aww did I hurt your feelings? Hey do X for Me” no explanation and I’m still new to this shit but it works.

tripmepls · 2020-09-21T18:42:09+00:00

In the words of Frank Sinatra, “that’s life.”
Women are attracted to the dark triad traits and you being aloof gives the perception that your SMV is high and you have a lot going on

inbredostrptw · 2020-09-23T03:18:26+00:00

I think the way to use this to your advantage is genuinely not care if they leave. You can want them, we all want women and sex, you just can’t need them. This puts you in a mindset where you won’t tolerate excessive shit and you won’t prioritize them as much. You don’t have to intentionally ignore them, but don’t try too hard to get them, it’s not worth your time

Cimorene86 · 2020-09-21T10:47:40+00:00

It's not that they "like" you more, it's that they don't want to be ignored. It's basically the reverse of when girls ignore boys in elementary/middle school and the boys then pull our hair to gain attention back. There's way too many people out there who need external validation instead of understanding that you really shouldn't give a fuck.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-09-20T22:22:08+00:00

Sidebar.

michael1962-01 · 2020-09-21T06:51:25+00:00

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Title	Why do girls..
Author	cummonster21
Upvotes	20
Comments	44
Date	September 20, 2020 8:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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