Let's be honest.

How do people not realize that my behavior and thoughts are part of a positive feedback loop? Men just don't approach me period so it has made me like this. So if I see men approaching my other friends and not me (when they don't know either of us) then what am I supposed to think? I have met crazy and mentally disturbed non-black men and women who are ugly and can get dates and never have a shortage of options, what am I supposed to think?

You think if I were a pretty Asian or white girl I'd even be posting this? Most black women I know have even less options than I do. (which means they have negative options) So I am supposed to be empathetic to everyone else, but people cannot empathize with me?

http://imgur.com/a/xZjRK http://i.imgur.com/97XF4ts.jpg http://imgur.com/a/mxJMq

Culture has nothing to do with anything.

It's just white men's excuse (luckily Latinos and Asians don't use that excuse--and they actually have culture). What culture do white (or any non-Native) American people have really ? I am "whiter" than some of them culturally. Grew up in the suburbs, went to an Ivy Leagues school, etc? It's just an excuse.

They'll look at my average looking white friend and say "because she's white I have more in common with her" when that's not even true.