Why were you beta?

Snowboard18 · 2020-09-13T19:59:49+00:00

The reason most guys are betas is because they didn’t have an alpha male father.

Every single natural alpha I’ve met or is friends with all had a dad that was badass and a great example of an alpha male

But the specific reason I grew up beta as fuck was because I was raised by a single mom that is extremely feminine. Although was father was somewhat of an alpha, I only got to see him like once a month

Spartawolf · 2020-09-13T19:08:44+00:00

Beta father, domineering feminist mother, no friends and being walked over by employers. I thought by being as nice I could to others I would gain their respect and get a good wife as taught by my father until a series of events made me very fucking angry. The path of the incel didn't appeal to me so I researched ways I could be better and more powerful. That's how I found the red pill and have done a 180 from the person I was.

BestVersionOfMyself_ · 2020-09-13T20:50:37+00:00

My father lost his father when he was really young, so he never had a father figure and he had two older sisters plus his mother, so he was grow up in an extremely femine environment where he had no chance of learning masculanity. This is of course shifted into my upbringing, I cannot blame him, he always had and still loves me, and tried his best, still I grown up as a beta.

But I can do blame society.

School teachers are mostly women, they cannot give you the life lessons of a man, also, almost all of the male teachers are weak. We were thaught what the fuck happened in 1526 but we were never thaught how to be a healthy adult, because, spoiler alert, teachers are not healthy adults. (Respect to the VERY FEW good teachers)

In every fucking TV show if a relationship goes to a dead end, the male is the one who can be blamed. From every possible source I learned that I have to be a sincere knight to have a girlfriend. I won't tell you a big secret if I reveal the truth about it: It never fucking worked on the long run and today we know very well it won't work for even a minute. Video games should be highly restriced, and I would make porn illegal. Both of them took years away from my healthy sexual life.

My brother told me 15 fucking years ago that he starts to realize that women started more and more dress up like pornstars in porn movies and I wasn't belive him, I was thinking oh maybe he watches too much porn and he projects it to reality. I was wrong. Being a slut is now not just accepted but celebrated. But it not just women, who the fuck could think of making a career by PLAYING VIDEO GAMES a decade ago? Where are all the good men? I tell you where, they are farming in World of Warcraft, using their dark matter to solve non-existent problems in a virtual world.

The truth is that western civilization is a big fucked up mess. We are cutting the last connections to nature and natural selection which will make humanity voluntarily moving inside the Matrix.

Rant over.

BalkanChrisHemsworth · 2020-09-13T20:30:06+00:00

Asked my mom for advice instead of my dad lol

courtesy_flush_plz · 2020-09-13T20:41:05+00:00

My dad didn't want my brother & I to surpass him financially or status-wise. He stood by & let us trip up & make bad financial decisions with vehicles when I know he knew better.

Some parents are very selfish on levels that are hard to fathom

YamoTime · 2020-09-13T22:37:06+00:00

It’s strange, had a father who wasn’t afraid of confrontation, could roast people, and was just in general a strong man. He taught me a lot about discipline, being career focussed and raising children, even my teachers said he did a good job, I wasn’t completely obedient but even now I note down some of the things he did so I can do them in the future, but he didn’t teach so much about girls.

I’d say I have him to thank for my laser focus, but I still had trouble with assertiveness and social skills. I might just need more practice. But I’d say what also contributed would have been being taught to be polite which people mistook as weakness, and watched a lot of comedy tv where the main males were beta e.g modern family, friends, etc, I copied this style of humour but it didn’t work. It’s only a few months ago that I’m taking active steps in improving my personality and taking the journey to being Alpha. I’ve been in leadership positions before due to other traits and most people not wanting to take the mantle but it’s still a lot I need to work on.

TheBadGoy · 2020-09-14T01:04:20+00:00

Christianity made me super naive about the world

inkwind · 2020-09-14T02:26:33+00:00

Too pussy to understand the world. My own fault.

RealZenya · 2020-09-14T15:36:48+00:00

My dad was beta

youngfuture7 · 2020-09-14T17:28:18+00:00

Social dad, but wasn’t really there for me except for protecting me from harming myself (bad friends, drugs, gambling etc), 2 feminist sisters that cant stop talking about politics, 1 strong frame mother. I’ve been a fucking bitch all my life. I was so fucking furious for luckily a short period of time, however when I think about it again the rage starts boiling. My life was always led by others (mainly family). Only till recently Ive decided to do something about it. Lifting, trying my best to move out, eating healthy, and just not caring about what others think. I think I’ve also been depressed since a young age. Since TRP my brain is so much more calm and open right now it’s mind blowing.

2020-09-15T22:37:19+00:00

Started being extremely beta at 13 because I would rely on my friends to support me which obviously didn't work well since they also were beta and clueless on what to do with their life.

Once I turned 16 I had already went through so many shit thanks to my bad decisions, so I decided to get some advices from my father which I had never seeked for help before because he only teaches me stuff when I ask him to teach me.

That's right, it took me a few years to realize that I was fucking my life till the point that I really needed his help and I wish I knew that sooner. I was surprised when I found out that my father had a lot of knowledge that could have helped me in so many situations where I goofed up for not knowing what to do. Nowadays I follow his path and since I'm still very young, my main goal is to be like him in the future so that's what I'm currently working on.

Basically my mistake was not talking about my life with my parents, specifically my father. I believe they would've helped me if they actually knew what the fuck was going on but I'd only tell stuff to my friends for some reason.

Title	Why were you beta?
Author	redpillman99
Upvotes	9
Comments	27
Date	September 13, 2020 6:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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