Like the title says. My approaches come from the university i go to and when the girl is sitting down at a table. I have done a few approaches while shes walking but it feels unnatural for me and weird but i guess i can try more when they are walking. Thats right 53 approaches in 2 months and only 5 numbers in return might not seem like a lot for some of you but i invest my full attention and time to each approach. I stay in the conversation for about 10 to 15 minutes some conversations have lasted about an hour or even 30min. I don't know wtf am doing wrong, am not bad looking, am athletic body, average height and light eyes. There should be girls lining up for me to take them out. WRONG!!!! On almost every girl i approach i ask if she is single after a while of chatting and almost all the time she says she has a boyfriend, i've had a couple that tells me she is talking to someone. Since so many have told me that now i just tell em "is he real or imaginary" they laugh and dont hesitate to tell me its real. I got 2 numbers this week one said she doesnt date because shes tired of being in relationships and the other i asked her for a date this weekend and said that she will be busy studying lol which is a complete bullshit excuse and i even told her that if she was gonna lie might as well come up with something better than that. these past 2 months have taught me many things about talking to random people but it has also taken a toll on me mentally cus rejection sucks and i start to question things about me like i guess am not as good looking as i thought i was or maybe am just destined to be like this for me no matter how hard i try. I mean i know guys who end relationships and 2 or 3 weeks later they already talking to a girl and setting up a date and they dont approach its like the girls just go to them and am like dam i wish i had that luck. Things like these start to get in my head, and thats when i get down on myself like a fucking lesbian has a better chance of finding someone than me or a fat ugly chick on a dating website has a list of guys to choose from to go on dates with. Sad but true. Am seriously thinking about not approaching anymore and just let it be because am trying and trying but no results.
EDIT: Hey if you gonna comment or give advice I prefer you write something positive and rational not negative shit like "you just angry" "bitter". I have only gotten 2 good advices so far the rest are just unorignal crap.
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