Hey seddit long time lurker but first time post. So I'm 21, in college, and recently single after a LTR. Last night my roommate threw a party at our place with a bunch a people from the business school. There were a few but not many relatively attractive girls there so I figured I'd try some of the stuff I've been learning out. It went great. Got three numbers and a k-close all while not giving a fuck and having a great time with my friends. The only thing was I started my sarging after 6 beers with come close friends and then progressively got drunker from there. While most conversations went great there others I just felt too drunk to keep up with. I know the beer was a huge aid in getting over AA but when it came to certain conversations it just got in the way. So I was wondering...whats your happy medium with alcohol? Do you find it better to get a buzz on at a separate location (pre-game) or in the middle of the action? And finally when do you stop?