This past weekend I was out and I saw a table with 3 girls and a guy (the guy wasn't dating any of the girls). I thought one of the girls was really cute so I went to speak with her. I said what I usually say "Can I say? You really cute" or something among the lines. After 30 seconds of small talk, the worst thing happen - my mind went completely blank. I was just standing there awkwardly for probably 10 seconds just looking around thinking of what to say and after nothing coming to mind I just said something like "Well I'll see you around" and just went to my table kicking myself how I messed up.

The girl and her friends looked at me a few times after and I smiled at them a few times but I just felt like I missed my shot. Anyway later during the night I saw them leaving and I just waved at the girl goodbye as they left but after a few minutes, one of her friends came back and told me "Hey what's your snap? It's for my mate.". I gave her my snap not expecting anything but as I woke up the next morning the girl that I approached had added me. We texted for a bit and now we got a date coming up later this week.

The thing is I thought that I was so awkward and that I messed up but the truth is that I was just in my head and if it wasn't for the girl's friend I was probably never gonna see the girl again. So yeah fellas always ask for the contact info even if you think that you've messed up, or you don't feel like things are gonna go anywhere. What's the worst that can happen? You text and you get no response? Plus very rarely you'll get a girl's friends doing the work for you so you'll have to make the ask.