Above all, it’s a numbers game.

kalz44 · 2020-09-25T19:52:07+00:00

This might be the best piece of advice. If you're unhappy with your dating life start meeting people.

earsurgery9 · 2020-09-25T19:41:49+00:00

100% - lots of PUA's even admit this nowadays.

It's only the really old school guys who tried selling snake oil (before youtube and stuff debunked them) who say otherwise

It's simply about finding the girls who are into you, and then not creeping them out and having the balls to escalate relatively smoothly (game) and leading it to sex. No magic pushpull lines or NLP or whatever are gonna actually 'build sexual attraction' if she had none to begin with. It's decided in a nano second, same as it is when a girl speaks to you

the fact that people charge thousands for bootcamps and stuff makes me blood boil lol.

Nivajoe · 2020-09-25T23:22:44+00:00

I personally know several ugly dudes, weirdos, and even a sex offender that are in relationships...

A lot of young guys have this mentality they'll never find a girl or something...

I understand a lot of guys here are insecure about never being able to get a relationship or even just causal sex... but the idea that you will never be able to do that is statistically irrelevant...

If you just put yourself out there enough times... you will obviously find someone

GoldSmith64 · 2020-09-26T03:44:35+00:00

I needed this, thank you 💗💗💗

SebbM12 · 2020-09-26T16:23:26+00:00

I'll be completely honest. This is absolutely false, the point of game is to not make it a numbers game. If you're not persisting or overcoming all the shit tests and objections you're simply not getting the actually hot girls and are settling with 6/7s. This is simply how it works from a biology standpoint, the hottest girls have way more filters you have to pass before getting into their radar.

It's not like you can't have an abundance mentality while also understanding that it should not be a numbers game if you're doing the right things to improve yourself and your game. I mean it is at the beginning when you suck, but your percentage should definitely skyrocket if you're doing the right adjustments, if that's not happening you're just doing it fundamentally wrong.

Slip_Slide345 · 2022-03-18T16:57:08+00:00

This is true. You cant escape the numbers game really. You HAVE to talk to plenty of women. Why?

MUCH OF REJECTION IS BAD TIMING

Half of the time when a woman turns you down, it's simply because you may have approached her at the wrong time in her life. Maybe at the time when you approached she had a boyfriend that she was going steady with & she turned you down... but less say two weeks later they broke up and she's now available. But at the time when you approached she was taken. It's about the right place and right time.

Or if you approach a woman while she's still emotionally stuck on an ex, she may turn you down or may have a wall up where you cant really seem to hit it off with her. But had you approached this SAME woman 3 or 4 months later, she probably would have been more emotionally available & you probably would have hit it off with her.

It's about meeting the right chick at the right place & right time. That's where the numbers game comes into play.

THERE'S SO MANY FACTORS AT PLAY

There's many factors that will be out of your control. You will come across women who will not be interested, you will come across women who have boyfriends (and girlfriends), you will come across women who are emotionally unavailable (still not over an ex or still stuck on an ex), and then you will come across women who are all over the place (i.e., flaky, don't know what they want).

Then on the OTHER HAND, you will meet woman who are only sexually attracted to you. You will come across women who are moderately interested in you (meaning she's not head over heels about you, but she is attracted to you)... and then you will meet those who are HIGHLY interested in you (most of the time with these women, you were already their type when they met you.)

So you can't escape the numbers game

Title	Above all, it’s a numbers game.
Author	KingCeddy24
Upvotes	66
Comments	13
Date	September 25, 2020 7:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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