After the ultimate rejection, I'm having a hard time keeping abundance mentality.

hemingwayfan · 2013-09-24T04:20:51+00:00

It's not personal. For her to go back, it means she didn't really take everything with her when she left. It isn't about being Alpha - its about realizing that her choice is about her. If you get cancer and she decides to bail, that's her character flaw. If you are a douche, and she decides to leave, rather than call you out on your shit, then that is about her. You shouldn't be a douche, but she chooses how Alpha she is going to be.

possibleaddict · 2013-09-24T20:54:38+00:00

I know that feeling. Been there 3 months ago.

First couple days were the hardest. Then, with time, it slowly gets better.

Whatever happens, don't humiliate yourself like I did. Don't try to get back with her. It is cringy and it won't work. Trust me, just, don't you dare to pm her. I did and I regret it.

Now, I'm laughing at myself, back then, 3 months ago.

slcjosh · 2013-09-24T16:42:48+00:00

just work on getting your self esteem back up, and once you heal up a bit from the hurt, go start meeting lots of women. dont expect anything just befriend everyone you meet and next thing you know you will be right where you need to be.

SaladBarScavenger · 2013-09-24T17:50:09+00:00

Give it time. It's normal to feel bad after something like this. Just focus on your daily routine for the next few weeks and don't do anything rash like text her or try to approach 100 girls and get rejected because they can sense you're in a bad place emotionally. You'll feel better in a few weeks.

Title	After the ultimate rejection, I'm having a hard time keeping abundance mentality.
Author	nycprowl
Upvotes	4
Comments	22
Date	September 24, 2013 3:49 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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