male 27 here

i am late bloomer i got my first kiss at age 27 this summer and it was not a great experience because my reality did not compare to my imagination at all.

after kissing and making out with other ladies I realized that I actually wasn't missing out on anything important,

not to say I didn't enjoy it all it was a little bit enjoyable at the moment,

the biggest lesson i learned from this is i was way more into the fantasy of kissing women than reality,

i am not gay or a-sexual by the way just straight a straight dude