Anyone use a pickup coach?

jdgrazia · 2022-04-18T02:49:53+00:00

If you haven't dedicated yourself to physical fitness a coach will be a waste of money

insa_max · 2022-04-18T12:32:27+00:00

Yo I'm coaching people myself, here's my experience working with clients so that know what you're getting into:

Those who don't get results out of coaching:

Ask the same questions over and over instead of trying out things and taking action.
Find excuses to not do the exercises and drills.
Do the exercises halfway and give up, saying "I did it enough I think".
Keep asking "are you sure this works?".
Want to skip the "boring parts" of the coaching.
Want to give up if results don't come after 2 weeks.

Those who do get results out of coaching:

Use the given exercises and drills as a starting point and do even more.
Focus on the process, not the outcome.
Don't quit when it is hard or when they get confused.
Are focused on finding solutions, not complaining about problems.

If you think you are in the second category then you're ready for coaching. Then all you need to do is find someone who has the results you want to get, and who is able to teach what he knows.

hagakurejunkie · 2022-04-18T21:10:10+00:00

F**k the coach, most of them are tools anyway.

Go to your local lively bar and watch until you figure out who the good seducers are. Once you have that figured out, determine who the best one is and buy him a drink and ask him for pointers.

If you want to learn poker, you don't ask a coach, you ask the man who pays for his porsche through poker.

If you want to sleep with more women, ask the man who sleeps with the most women.

5_7pickup · 2022-04-18T00:06:41+00:00

I do coaching. I run solo Vegas nightclub game.

Refer to my field reports to see if Im someone you want coaching from.

dookieface · 2022-04-17T23:39:30+00:00

Try dating apps?

Granny_Killa · 2022-04-18T00:36:13+00:00

There are plenty out there. The trouble is you are going to pay thousands to them and have no guarantee of results. Possibly try an online program first, it is possible to find torrents but pay for them if you can afford to. Todd Valentine's are one of my favourite, this is more 'technical game' but if you have the courage to approach as it sounds like you do, then it sounds like you just need some consistent strategies.

I would suggest finding a fashion/styling coach too. These aren't cheap, but it can make a huge difference to how you're treated by everyone if you're looking sharp with clothes that suit you. At your age you might inevitably be dressing like a dorky dad (I'm mid 30's and I know my fashion lacks a little bit as I am now 'out of touch' with the kids these days).

Qjemuse · 2022-04-18T07:03:06+00:00

Where are you getting your girls from. Day/night/apps/social?

antonthecad · 2022-04-18T08:25:01+00:00

This is going to be a long term project for you. Paying a pick up coach is pointless unless you are getting regular check in points and there's some accountability.

You can go to a weekend fantasy camp but the reality is that you are unattractive to women in so many ways. You need to start from the beginning.

The easiest things to fix are aesthetics in the sense that you get a better haircut, get smarter clothes and shoes etc. Then the hardest bit is changing your mindset, you need to get to the point where you are desperate but that's a catch 22.

I'll tell you about myself. I dress okay, I'm in good shape but most importantly, I'm so fucking charming. I sleep with a new girl every week on average. I know I will go on a date and she'll want to fuck me, history tells me that and if for some reason she doesn't, she must be a weirdo. For a woman, having a guy go in with that kind of energy is intoxicating. It's a very powerful experience and I think if you don't have money or status, the most important thing you can do is harness an attractive mindset. I'm reasonably good looking but girls just go nuts after spending a few hours with me.

Title	Anyone use a pickup coach?
Author	Fragmented79
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Comments	17
Date	April 17, 2022 11:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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