Approaching in the gym

dani098 · 2019-02-12T09:55:12+00:00

As a gym regular I talk to girls quite a bit especially ones I see there a lot. Ive made a lot of friends and dated a few

obviousyak · 2019-02-12T16:19:31+00:00

To be fair I've been going to the same commericial gym for 5 years, so I'm incredibly comfortable there. Had the same experience as /u/dani098 If it's someone I haven't seen before I'll make a comment about their lift, "hey that was a really impressive squat, any plans on competing?" This works because I'm a powerlifter and am genuinely curious. An average gym goer with minimal muscle would not elicit the same response from the girl because it would come off like hes just trying to fuck, which I see all the time. Around 50% of the time they'll chat a bit more, from their I gauge interest and decide whether or not to get a number.

dani098 · 2019-02-12T10:26:58+00:00

Yeah I know what you mean. It very s lot but if you are a regular and you keep seeing hat same person most of the time I just go up and ask there name, point out that I see them slot. Most of the time it just developed from there.

A few times I’ve used the line “you are not trying to embarrass me are you” or something to that effect insinuating they’re lifting more weights than me. I use this when they walk up and are working out close to me. Half the time this dies not really go anywhere, not really negative, the other half is fairly positive. And even if it’s not positive her going to weary you might can lead into a conversation next time you see her

Edid. Typos... I was fucking tired. Have not fixed yet

_hownow_browncow · 2019-02-12T17:18:04+00:00

As a female who regularly goes to the gym, please don’t do this. It’s irritating and makes women uncomfortable. I’ve had friends have to switch gyms because of this and I personally have had to change routines and schedules to avoid the normal times guys show up to do this kind of stuff. Sorry if it sounds harsh but just thought I’d share :-|

weallwantsomethink · 2019-02-12T17:46:38+00:00

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Foobyx · 2019-02-12T18:17:12+00:00

Go there several time and acknowledge the presence of each other. After some times, it's pretty ok to talk

Title	Approaching in the gym
Author	weallwantsomethink
Upvotes	6
Comments	23
Date	February 12, 2019 9:44 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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