Are Dating Apps Worth It?

obviouslybait · 2021-08-11T01:51:33+00:00

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XxLogitech98xX · 2021-08-11T02:16:06+00:00

Dating app is worth it if you find what you're looking for. That's basically how it is, a lot of people will say it's not because they didn't find what they were looking for. The people who did, like myself will say we wouldn't have our current partners now without it. It's basically if you want to take the risk to improve your dating experience then of course use dating app. If you want to be conservative or play it safe then dating app isn't for you.

No-Platform-2184 · 2021-08-11T03:16:37+00:00

I'm on team dating apps. They have worked for me but I am in a top 20 city and I am in/looking for the 28-36 age range. YMMV.

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-08-11T03:24:35+00:00

Yes, don't use it to find the love of your life, use instead to improve your social skills and your approach to women

2021-08-11T06:53:32+00:00

They generally don't work for the vast majority of men. This is because men outnumber women by a lot and are a lot more active. They lack so many elements of face to face communication that get women to become attracted to you. Online dating can work if you are very physically attractive or really master online dating and made it a science.

Even if you get laid, usually these women are less attractive than who you meet in real life. This is because attractive women are less likely to need online dating. Also, the gender imbalance means its really hard to get a woman in your league assuming you get one at all.

jwilhelm0618 · 2021-08-11T03:52:00+00:00

Black_doodleladoo100 · 2021-08-11T05:26:04+00:00

YES if you're Rich and Good Looking Men

TLDR21 · 2021-08-11T18:48:54+00:00

IMO the high value women wont be on dating apps. If you spend an hour a day on apps, thats almost a full day of things you could do for you every week. A day a week you could spend volunteering for something you are passionate about, join a CrossFit gym ect. With that in mind OLD seems like a sacrifice.

So unless you are limiting you OLD time to very minimal everyone would be better off doing more real life stuff around women. Me included

rosealene · 2021-08-11T03:40:09+00:00

They can be. I found 2 relationships through them— but even apps like TikTok and IG can be a good place to meet people IF you check your DM’s (which I never did and when I did, I didn’t respond because I was in relationships) clearly, bad choice because i connected with someone pretty cool on TikTok Saturday who is fairly local… so I guess I’m saying just put yourself out there. It’s 2021 and there are many avenues to take to meet people. Facebook also has FB dating which is free (as a gay women I didn’t find too much selection there) but… try em’ all! But unless you put yourself out there, you’ll never know ;)

thelambofdeth · 2021-08-11T04:01:36+00:00

If you're really good-looking

HarpertFredje · 2021-08-11T12:20:26+00:00

I personally find them useless cashgrabs. They hide your profile so you have to pay for matches (and you still barely get any even when you pay). Plus dating apps (especially free ones) are extremely oversaturated with men.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-08-11T02:38:31+00:00

100% worth it - there's over a million people that are going Mohave sex today that met off a dating app.

Title	Are Dating Apps Worth It?
Author	Adam_Luke
Upvotes	11
Comments	26
Date	August 11, 2021 1:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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