Are girls that subtle?

TonyDCoaching · 2024-03-12T19:00:29+00:00

I don't know why men are so obsessed with women looking at them. Is there some guru out there teaching you need women to look at you to pick them up? I'm 5'8", white guy, and women never look at me. I've still picked up over a hunded women. How? I approach them. I don't care if they look at me. It's not in their nature to do this anyway.

burncushlikewood · 2024-03-13T01:15:31+00:00

Women don't check out guys as much as men like to check out girls, and when women check guys out they do it as you said subtle, women also care less about looks than men so there's that aspect too, other things that attract women, social skills, money, intelligence, stuff like that.

DarkestAhole · 2024-03-13T03:02:46+00:00

Idk man I get looked at a lot, some women will smile, some will stare at you and then look at their friend, this is the biggest sign usually.

mkkpt · 2024-03-13T06:21:11+00:00

For 95% of guys, we don't have the emotional intelligence to tell. The biggest attractor is how she feels about you, she doesn't know that until you start talking to her.

There are the top 5% of guys who are model attractive and get looks. It's just not applicable to an average persons experience.

It's not worth thinking about. Even if it was true, you should be the one that decides if you are attractive. Things like, am I living a fulfilling life, am I doing things that challenge me and make me happy, am I eating healthy, exercising and taking care of my mental health.

Standard for beauty change societally anyway - e.g. 90's heroin chic vs today curves, lip filler.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-03-12T21:42:22+00:00

They only look at guys who stand out. They also don't look at guys who look at them.

I am 6'5 my line of sight is very high so I don't look at women. Some will stare, one girl, two girls, and girls with their boyfriends.

Some will look blankly at you. Some will double take. It's not every day but frequent enough.

If you are looking for validation if girls like you watch their receptiveness. Also watch how they hold eye contact. You can feel them studying your face as you are talking.

Going around looking to see if girls look at you is low value behaviour.

OkReply2035 · 2024-03-15T19:45:24+00:00

Ive only seen women give out iois during night game if youre a good looking guy. During the day dont expect anything. Most people are in their own heads and insecure about themselves.

swampbutcher · 2024-03-12T19:57:46+00:00

Well this sunday girl looked at me multiple times at bar, she even kept staring at me when i looked back, i sent her request on Instagram, didn't answer yet. Every time I looked at her she was looking at me. I'll try to set a date anyway i don't feel like texting. I didn't approach that day because I wasn't in a mood and that bar is not really good place for it.

Title	Are girls that subtle?
Author	notslow24
Upvotes	12
Comments	13
Date	March 12, 2024 6:30 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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