Being straightforward on Tinder

2Siders · 2015-06-12T10:32:22+00:00

My experience is people won't even read your bio until you get matched or get interested in you.

rseductionacc · 2015-06-12T05:56:10+00:00

20 male here, made a fake account on Facebook specifically for discreet encounters. Made it this afternoon.

For the bio I put "discrete account to meet girls who are into spanking" etc

"Swipe right if you think you qualify"

Got 3 matches already, it's been maybe 3 hours

enkae7317 · 2015-06-12T06:54:37+00:00

Being straightforward definitely weeds out all the girls who want to play a fucking game. Oh, sure, you want to date for 3-4 dates before a kiss? Fuck that.

Of course, they'll usually give it up on the first date anyways but hey, nobody wants to be slut shamed.

zephyrprime · 2015-06-12T16:45:24+00:00

Not afraid to chase? I think pretty much all guys chase. Some just do it in AFC ways.

2015-06-13T04:06:12+00:00

Honestly i dont do it. I have been super flirty and then you meet and its like uhhhhh nevermind. I flirt a little couple messages back and forth and then coffee or drinks

kingofpoplives · 2015-06-12T18:32:50+00:00

Definitely want your guys' thoughts on this.

I think your experimental design is flawed.

Also, are you banging these girls yet? Matches mean nothing. We count score with bangs.

spongekitty · 2015-06-12T20:04:55+00:00

As a female, I definitely love to see this. I hate to go on dates where there's just no physical component at all-- like, was that a date, or are we just chilling? Because if I ever want a relationship, I want to know we work physically. It's super awkward if a guy keeps his distance. Sure, I don't want to sleep with you on the first date, but kiss, flirt? Hell yeah.

kibbonsnbits · 2015-06-12T20:28:49+00:00

I met my husband on tinder, his bio had stuff about how he graduated college, and worked in IT and then at the end of it "blondes aren't my thing, brunettes & read heads are the best. Also, I want an actual relationship." So he was pretty straight forward about what he was looking for. When I looked at his account, he had tons of matches.

Spore2012 · 2015-06-12T10:15:37+00:00

It's just super confident. Bitches are attracted to that.

Plus it takes all the pressure and guessing off if/when you are on a date and the attraction is there. Both of you know and accept the fate.

Spore2012 · 2015-06-12T10:15:36+00:00

It's just super confident. Bitches are attracted to that.

Title	Being straightforward on Tinder
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Date	June 12, 2015 5:34 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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