Can learning how to play the guitar help a guy get laid?

CrushHazard · 2015-08-03T22:48:52+00:00

Playing the guitar poorly? Not really. Playing the guitar well? Maybe. Playing guitar and singing well? Hell yes.

folieadeux6 · 2015-08-04T01:36:27+00:00

anyway here's wonderwall

ShitfacedBatman · 2015-08-03T23:01:17+00:00

Dammit, it better. I've been trying to learn Van Halen's Panama.

Lols. But seriously, if you learn well enough to play at an open mic, you've at least got something to do besides dance clubs and standing around and drinking. It's like a socially acceptable hacky sack.

ThatAgnosticGuy · 2015-08-03T23:19:59+00:00

Note: In my experience, the biggest advantage seduction wise to playing an instrument isn't just getting a lay, but presenting your qualities and building a positive image for yourself overall and in the long run.

I play classical and flamenco guitar. I'm about 5 years in. It can help if you're serious about it. Knowing how to play any instrument well is a good look, not only for yourself and personal gain but for your reputation. Playing Malaguena at my high school concert sent my social proof through the roof.

It mostly comes in handy as a conversation piece when you're getting to know a girl, begin presenting/opening up your life. I hardly ever bring it up at parties. They virtually all take interest. You show that you're cultured (maybe because most guys don't pluck nylon strings), have talent, and can dedicate time to achieving a goal. It truly does make you more attractive and alluring. I play pieces for some girls that I bring back home, but if she's in your room already it probably doesn't do much. Edit: If it interests anyone (because I like this kind of thing), I do it because of the atmosphere change and the feelings music can invoke. Especially flamenco. The state which you are both in can become something else completely for a period of time. It's profound, makes me feel almost high (even when I play by myself). Music can be very arousing for women when you play. When you play and have the nature of the music come out not only through the sound but through your self, the air can morph and everyone will feel it. Depending on the piece and how you express it you can create a whole space of thrill and emotion and passion and sexuality to immerse yourselves in. Through a stereo people get chills. Imagine the feeling you can invoke in your own space by producing it yourself. This piece, Malaguena, is the sound I use to produce or invoke sexual feelings. I play it by myself often because it's exciting. Do it after y'all both sip the bhang you can essentially hop planes. I break out the guitar after we're already settled in my room and have done some other activity (Shoot pool, Smash Bros., something like that.)

auveeb · 2015-08-03T23:24:46+00:00

Yes. Being good at anything will automatically raise you up a couple points and make you unique towards the girls that are interested in the same thing...

greatestaccounteva · 2015-08-03T23:37:25+00:00

Yes, sort of. because when you're doing things you like, and have goals, it improves your overall life state. So you just have a more positive vibe.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-08-04T00:00:03+00:00

I have played guitar for many years, but how well I play is a matter of opinion. I sometimes mention playing guitar to women, and they can feel my passion for music. But none of them have ever heard me play.

Women want to know you are passionate about something, anything. That way, she can believe you might be passionate about her.

Morokweng · 2015-08-04T00:01:36+00:00

If you do something for the purposes of getting girls to pay attention to you, rather than doing that thing for its own sake and your own interest in it... then no.

Also every dickhead and his dog plays the guitar.

AquaGiant · 2015-08-03T22:29:34+00:00

It'll help in conversation but doing a jam session for a girl won't have her rubbing her pussy in your face. Go for it to make yourself more interesting though.

imthatguy4 · 2015-08-03T22:40:56+00:00

Become passionate enough about it and it can

Bevinisyourdad · 2015-08-04T01:21:20+00:00

Lol if you're willing to wait the year and a half- two years it will take to get to that point. Playing guitar is one thing, singing AND playing is basically learning another instrument. After you get timing and basic melody then you have to get dynamic. You're better off lifting weights if you want a quicker solution, no disrespect to you fitness guys, noobgains am I right?

muddybunny3 · 2015-08-04T01:36:40+00:00

No, but being passionate about guitar and having skill is attractive. Actually, being passionate and having skill in almost anything is attractive. Art especially, because art is more deep and emotional than something like video games or ping pong.

lookslikeyoureSOL · 2015-08-04T01:52:44+00:00

Only if it's acoustic guitar and you're playing John Mayer ("Your Body is a Wonderland")

Source: my ex-roommate would bust out the acoustic at parties, sing Mayer, and would then proceed to drown in pussy all night.

I_AM_ZOIDBERG · 2015-08-04T05:02:49+00:00

It never helped me :/ lol

schaferlite · 2015-08-04T08:00:59+00:00

Playing guitar? Eh. Singing? Probably. Playing banjo? Well. That's what opens up the floodgates of women, boys

RickenAxer · 2015-08-04T10:01:02+00:00

Yes. And, from experience, I'll say you don't even have to play or sing all that well.

My playing is rudimentary. My singing is awful. Countless times, it made girls that I was attracted to light up. The effect is, sometimes, startling.

Dcpt77 · 2015-08-04T12:05:20+00:00

Guitar player/singer here (yeah, Oasis and other popular stuff). Still can't get any girl. Maybe it's because I sit home alone and play whiny songs. Lol.

cfcosta · 2015-08-04T05:51:59+00:00

Fellow guitar learner here. I like going to the beach with some friends to play guitar, and while I'm not even close to how well they play, I can do the rhythm part to some songs, and every now and then groups of girls sit closer to where we are to listen. It's just a matter of calling them to sit with you, and have a blast with them :)

But I wouldn't think about that too much. Learning how to play an instrument is a way to express yourself in a different manner, and that's a good thing. If you are passionate about it, people will feel your passion overflowing through you, but if you're learning it just to bang chicks, people will feel that too.

Scottydoesntknowyou · 2015-08-08T20:23:09+00:00

My guitar friend told me this. Learn just one song. Thats it.

When you bring a drunk girl home you dont have to play 5 songs. Learn 1 song and shes more into you.

well_done_mate · 2015-08-03T23:52:42+00:00

I think the appeal is that you've had the discipline, dedication and passion to achieving a relatively difficult goal (playing an instrument well) so it's not necessarily about the guitar itself. Maybe pick something you'd truly love to learn and set goals for that.

Title	Can learning how to play the guitar help a guy get laid?
Author	lucidusdreamus
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Date	August 3, 2015 10:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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