[21 M] So, I go to college in a large city. During my freshman year, I seemed to just "get" women: they seemed to know me, I just clicked with them, and had a few good flings.

But now I'm a junior, and everything just turned so... sexless, and disheartening? I'm not sure what to make of it, but I work out a lot and maintain my looks, I have a good paying job, I volunteer, but I just feel sexually invisible. It's as if, even though I'm doing better than I ever have in my life (honors program, quit smoking, incredibly healthy), I just feel like I'm completely off women's radars. On top of that, I try not to be a creep and generally have positive interactions with people and can easily make guy friends, but girls just seem so distant. Nowadays, I feel less like a man and more like some beast wrapped in featureless cardboard.

Does anyone else have a similar experience, or any insight? I'm looking for a relationship, but honestly I'm so tired and worn out that I'd take anything right now, yet for some reason I just can't even get that. The worst part is I'm probably missing something big or obvious, but I don't know! Really starting to get stressed out :(