Community is not helpful

appmanga · 2022-09-20T15:21:17+00:00

Thanks for your seduction question.

curisax · 2022-09-20T12:13:53+00:00

I think it can seem very unhelpful because there's just so many moving parts.

It also doesn't help that every single PUA expert disagrees about literally everything when it comes to 'game'.

They all break each others rules, but all can show some success. But then how much of that success is simply a result of playing the numbers game? I'd say possible all of it! All of the 'best' get rejected so much that you start to wonder how relevant their game and techniques even are.

I'm starting to think that most of the actual tangible 'outergame' and techniques and stuff is actually possibly doing more harm than good too lol. I think all of us here know about cold reads and making statements over questions and teasing and pushpull lines etc. We even see so many infields that end in rejections where people are applying these techniques. Sometimes i come out of an interaction thinking 'Hmm...maybe i'll just try being normal next time. Using 'interview' mode etc like any other guy would as I think she tohught them pushpulls and cold reads were strange!' haha

And of course we see infields where the PUA does things wrong or maybe even gets approached etc and it ends in a lay. Or people getting shot down all night with them techniques and then eventually opening a girl who he doesn't

I'm basically not sure that we're not spending a lot of time on something that can barely increase your odds of banging a particular girl by more than like a fraction of a percent

I don't think it's the communities fault, though. We're all here for the same reasons. It's maybe that this isn't really a 'skill' as such, but it more a game of persistence (lots of approaches), and how naturally hot you are kind of thing

incognito3107 · 2022-09-20T12:34:51+00:00

There are many beginner guys here, there is usually no point in presenting any specific technique if protagonist has little clue about context and purpose. Human relations can be very complex and counterintuitive, it's not hammering nails, it's not like learning and passing a test in school. You need to work on certain skills and improve your assests to even get some edge, most of the time. Think of it like a comprehensive game that has no simple solution, it's better to emphasize basics rather than lead everyone by the hand through 50 levels of getting a happy relationship.

Yes, looks matter a lot. You need to excel at everything. Welcome to life.

Liberaler · 2022-09-20T13:45:11+00:00

This subreddit is just a tool. A tool is only as good as the person using it.

Mr_Throwaway2834 · 2022-09-20T17:58:54+00:00

Read Mode One

ChiIdishcambino · 2022-09-20T19:38:31+00:00

Now what?

Particular_Visual531 · 2022-09-20T21:50:08+00:00

I can actually help you, it will take work, I saw you say you know life is difficult, so as long as you're willing to work, I can help you. And if you really want to do this, we can update this subreddit on your progress.

Title	Community is not helpful
Author	aeroaca9
Upvotes	0
Comments	22
Date	September 20, 2022 11:55 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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