Converting Street Cold Approaches to girlfriend almost impossible?

DatingVX · 2022-03-03T12:32:33+00:00

Hm, yes mostly. Stereotypical Cold approaching is almost like Tinder to me. Most men ask for a phone number after a 5-10 minute conversation. There is no chemistry, connection, deepness, story there. She saw your face/body - attracted to you, and gave you a number after 5 minutes. It's like OLD, that just transitions into casual sex more often.

Change the method, talk to them for longer if you don't, take them out right there, take it slower. A number is only as strong as the conversation you had before you got it.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-03T11:59:37+00:00

Your challenge is with converting ONS / FWB to a relationship. This is not a problem with your approach. That phase was already completed successfully.

Converting a ONS or FWB to a relationship should be pretty straight forward. If you're having trouble in this regard, can you explain the issues you're encountering?

In my experience, women tend to catch feelings really quick if you have casual sex with them a few times. They're genetically primed for developing an emotional bond with regular sex partners. If anything, the opposite problem tends to be more common. That you might want to keep having casual sex with them, but they don't want to because they will give you an ultimatum to enter a relationship with them or they will exit the situation.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-03T12:37:36+00:00

Yeah but you only need one girlfriend. Keep playing the numbers game. Just modify your approach if that's what you're looking for

NineteenAD9 · 2022-03-03T12:46:25+00:00

If you're pressed to find a relationship from cold approaching, then you'll make it harder on yourself by becoming purely outcome dependent. I have no idea if you are, but your post reads like that's how you're operating.

Pocket that desire; otherwise, you'll think any decent woman who gives you a vibe is worth a relationship. Go with the flow more and don't push a relationship unless she gives you ample reason to want a relationship.

Cold approaching doesn't decrease your relationship probabilities. Ultimately, if you're talking to any attractive woman, there's a decent chance she's already entertaining other men. So, it's even more reason why you shouldn't be pressed for something serious from each number you get. The less serious you take it, the better, and ultimately, the more options you'll gain.

pokemonpokemonmario · 2022-03-03T14:00:40+00:00

Maybe they find you attractive but you don't have you life together enough for them to want to commit to you. Like how wealthy are you?

incognito3107 · 2022-03-04T08:03:45+00:00

Well, you can try to take things little slower, get intimate into her life and build more comfort. Overall, right cold approaching makes her really attracted to you, but you are just confident male to her, not much else. That is the vibe, but there may be surely some way to convert this into meaningful relationship some time.

Title	Converting Street Cold Approaches to girlfriend almost impossible?
Author	ohropax
Upvotes	8
Comments	6
Date	March 3, 2022 11:54 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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