I met a guy I heard rumours about for years. And I finally came around meeting him.

I heard people say he's an absolute sociopath, has no anxiety, best gamer ever and I finally wanted to check it out.

I drove 2 hours to meet him in a big european capital.

Well I wasnt disappointed.

Here are my observations:

Edit: Clarification: We did daygame.

Edit: Yes very lifely facial expressions. Like some poster said, conveying warmth, authentic, understanding, acceptance. But always some distance, like he didnt take me serious and that when I would become annoying or whatever he would have just gone. Same in the convos with the girls. A genuine distance, not a fake reactive and compensative one. Its hard to describe.

He is rather short, very lean but not skinny, athletic I would say. Very open eyes.

He is very attentive, very positive energy when you talk to him. But not in an over the top way, in a relaxed way. Its all so subtle. He doesnt seem to want anything from you, just talk and get to know you, help you, understand you.

He opened sets like crazy. I had 45 minutes with him and he opened 3x2 sets, 2x3 sets. He wanted to show me some stuff so he kept the convos rather short and we just had limited time. I was exhausted after talking to so many girls but he was just going and going.

He just starts talking to them like its nothing and for some reason, I yet have to understand, they just light up immediately.

Its a very positive energy he protrudes and he is NOT AT ALL phased by any of their reactions. Like he will deal with shit tests etc but you can just feel his mental state always stays focused on being a happy bubbly guy. He just keeps going. Its crazy.

He doesnt do the high energy flashy stuff, just has a very straightforward energy. No sarcasm, very genuine, very happy.

Also I noticed he never excuses or even much explains why he is talking to them.

When he saw some chicks looking at their phone, he was just like "Can I help you? Are you lost?" or three chicks with red hair went by and he was just like "You all have red hair, wow" and they were all smiley and giggly.

One 3 set the girls texted us immediately after to join for drinks. But he had a date afterwards and so he just declinded.

It was the best frame control and mental state control I have ever seen.

I told him he should be a coach but he said he thinks he s not good enough for that. Lol.

Also afterwards he sent me like 10 voice memos, giving tipps, analysing what he had done. Maybe he is a sociopath, but hes one of the good ones that try helping people instead.

Edit: What I learned, what I will implement:

Girls are very friendly if you approach them the right way. Even if they are ultimately not interested you will not ruin a place by mass approaching like him.

Approach way more and move to bigger city with lots of tourists to practice

Open 2 and 3 sets from now on, they are a gold mine Low key persistence but not to the point where I will loose momentum

more indirect style, especially in crowded places

approach more from front instead turn stop style

get into state of mind "happy bubbly, kinda aloof set friendly guy wants to get to know new girls and people, is on an adventrue, genuine interest, whatever happens happens"

stop with the mindset "what if she thinks youre a scammer" I am not a scammer.

Edit 2: dont be too contrarian, like saying controversial stuff for the sake of it, because this will give the girls an excuse to leave. Rather polarize by escalating.