My best dates were in summer in parks and just going around the city:

Walk and Talk, Sit (on bench) and talk

I repeat this until I get the feeling the girl is ready. You can buy her some ice cream or a some drink from the supermarket or some stall. Very cheap. I like to pay the girls ice cream, its a nice thing I like doing.

What this accomplishes is multiple venue changes within a single date.

I know a girl is ready for a kiss by looking for if her body and most importantly her legs are pointed towards, like over each other towards me. If they are pointing towards me I try to kiss, if they point away from me, I know she needs some more time.

I like to talk about nice things like travel, her acomplishments, where she comes from, partying etc. Im akways smiling, very easy going.

For the kiss, I create a little "awkward pause" and count to three. Then I just kiss her.

Just like three seconds, always try tongue kissing. Then I step back and keep talking.

If she refuses, I do the same thing. Step back and keep talking.

Very important: Just act as if nothing happened. Just keep talking. If she mentions the kiss etc, just smile and say "ok, anyways about that trip to Cancun..."

Then try ten minutes later again.

It worked out like this very often.

Ideally you can time it so that its started to become dark. Make the kissing more intense.

Nkw the girl will do one of two things:

  1. Say she has to go home.

Thats good, just agree and get her to the subway etc. You will fuck her on the second date. Just invite her to watch a movie at your place

  1. She keeps sticking around. Try pulling her to your apartment. This is another topic though.

Ok, 3. in some cases she will want to go home and then flake. But if you did right with the kissing this rarely happens.

Summer is very easy for dating.

Hope this helps.