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revente · 2022-09-26T19:47:41+00:00

East Asians are said to be notoriosuly racist.

But idk maybe the only racist here is me, reproducing stereotypes about east Asian ppl?

loveisascam_ · 2022-09-26T19:24:28+00:00

One thing I realised about Chinese girls is that they do not like beards/facial hair

chief_yETI · 2022-09-26T20:33:33+00:00

This is a very sensitive topic that has a lot of potential to go really off the charts and veer into a lot heated discussions and misinterpreted statements.

But all I will say is that there is a LOT of racism against brown skin tones in East Asia especially. Celebrities can usually get by easily, as with literally everywhere in the world, but celebrities are the exception and not the norm.

Do with that information what you will.

Possiblyabitoff · 2022-09-26T21:16:36+00:00

Having grown up in the southern US (aka Red States), I’m accustomed to racism of both the closeted and open varieties. As a white person, everyone feels they can speak freely around me.

In my entire life I’d never seen the outright racism that many East Asians exhibit toward South Asians until I started dating within the Asian community. It’s most pronounced amongst Chinese and Vietnamese women, and least pronounced within the Philippine community. You’ve got your work cut out for you regardless.

The previous comments about facial hair are correct. Do yourself a favor and keep clean shaven.

Also, if you could learn Spanish and take on an Iberian surname, you’ll have a better chance of success. Only partially joking.

Ashamed-Ad-5004 · 2022-09-26T22:41:57+00:00

As another brown guy I just don't get the fascination with East Asian women. Vast majority of them are racists, materialistic, shallow, vapid. And above all they are social climbers. That's why you see so many of them date white men. I'd put East Asian women in the lowest tier based on my experience.

Ploikblah · 2022-09-27T11:27:09+00:00

As a brown guy, lmao, no one is into brown guys

Artist-in-Residence- · 2022-09-28T03:00:11+00:00

Trying to get an East Asian woman interested in you is quite similar to trying to get a British woman interested in you, they're quite standoffish and not known for being flirtatious.

You have to charm them with your wit and persistence. Usually most East Asian girls will say no if you ask them out without getting to know them first. This is because in East Asian cultures, people who are overeager to take someone out without getting to know them are often seen as swindlers and scam artists who are out for something.

Hence, it is to your advantage to understand their culture and learn their language and be able to at least know common terms in their language before trying to date them. It also helps if you have East Asian male friends and they can introduce you to other women or at least vouch for you.

Hookup culture does not exist in East Asian cultures because the latter only tends to exist in the sex industries (eg, karaoke bars, hostess bars etc). You have to be the utmost gentleman at all times in the initial wooing process, not push nor rush her for a hug or a kiss even after a month or so, so if you come off like a playboy or fckboy, most likely they will not be interested.

MrDownhillRacer · 2022-09-26T20:00:31+00:00

Let me consult Pew Research's scientific poll of women's opinions on you by race

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2022-09-26T23:50:33+00:00

I don’t think it’s your race at all. Have seen men of all races do just fine. My experience when approaching them is they often lack social skills, get spooked / freeze during cold approach. The key is to stay calm through the initial awkwardness, have good fundamentals, continue to speak to them and sometimes the awkwardness will melt away within 15 seconds and she will start to open up and engage more. If you’re not at least getting positive responses and pleasant polite conversation 60-80% of the time you’re probably doing something wrong in your approach.

Silver-Definition108 · 2022-09-26T18:36:13+00:00

I am not into small tits and flat asses, so I just ignore asian girls.

AmphibianCareless705 · 2022-09-26T18:38:11+00:00

Yes.

zapadz · 2022-09-26T18:50:29+00:00

Do you have facial hair?

NinetailsDestruction · 2022-09-27T05:07:31+00:00

Best not to chase after them because you may find yourself dealing with rude people. I think you shouldn’t look for one type of women because you are being extremely superficial and to say you think they are “beautiful” is a bit cringe because you don’t know if they are good people or not, just say you have a fetish rather than say something to cover your true intention.

Just leave them alone to be honest since them dismissing you like that is a sign they aren’t comfortable. Not all of them are like that but just be respectful and don’t give predator vibes which is why they run away to be honest

incognito3107 · 2022-09-27T08:01:09+00:00

There may be definitely some genetical prejudice here. It's not a bad thing at all, it's just how our nature works, to preserve valuable traits. I guess if you would come closer to their culture, you would receive much bigger rapport.

antonthecad · 2022-09-27T10:10:05+00:00

Why would you try to go for girls that aren't into you. There's very little benefit in trying to overcome a weakness, concentrate on what you are good at and hammer it home.

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