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Dianabayyebii · 2022-09-07T16:43:00+00:00

Maybe you just weren’t her type irl. Sure maybe she was what you perceive as ugly, but that doesn’t mean she should be enthralled with you because you are above her(your words not mine.)

Not everyone is going to like you and that’s ok. Try again with someone else.

python834 · 2022-09-07T15:26:08+00:00

Lol.

Cmon bro.

2022-09-07T16:10:50+00:00

Dont go on dates if you cant try a little. It sounds like while she couldve not been so rude, I’m sure you werent exactly a gentlemen either.

Theres no advice but forget it and move on

Reasonable-Low4120 · 2022-09-07T17:06:47+00:00

You sound incredibly shallow. My advice to you, work on your shitty personality.

EducationalMeeting95 · 2022-09-07T15:41:09+00:00

And thats the beauty of learning good game.

It builds in you the concept, that you don't need others validation to the level that 1 night of rejection can crush you like this.

Your self respect shouldn't come from the fact that you're an 8 or a 9.

Girls have that mentality and they're fucked up.

As a Man your confidence needs to be coming from something more substantial.

I keep getting rejected a lot of the times

Tinder bumble Instagram cold approach Have even been rejected kisses even when the girl was into me !

Its frustrating and makes me wanna punch a bag and nut really hard.

But doesn't shatter my confidence.

Build yourself to become better than what you are right now.

YouGotTangoed · 2022-09-07T16:45:20+00:00

Sounds like she made the right choice, if your confidence is so dependent on one date

Magicfx852 · 2022-09-07T19:17:24+00:00

You know, if I was you I wouldn’t take it so personally. Not every girl is going to like you, so it’s nothing to lose sleep over and get angry about. Instead, just look for the next opportunity and improve upon yourself to become more attractive and thus yield more and better interactions with women. Moral of the story, don’t get mad. Level up

SnooCalculations4568 · 2022-09-07T19:48:10+00:00

Maybe I'm wrong but if the girl got the slightest read of how little you wanted to be on a date with her, she'd obviously never wanna see you again lol. People want to feel desired, you made her feel as desired as a mouldy piece of bread

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-09-07T19:50:29+00:00

It probably has to do with you being boring, dull, annoying, or obnoxious once they meet you in real life.

they like you for your looks online but as soon S they meet in real life something about the way you talk or act with them is repulsive.

You probably won’t figure it out yourself, without someone who is good at analysing your behavior.

Artist-in-Residence- · 2022-09-07T15:29:14+00:00

Well you can always hit up your lesbian friend and she can smother you with attention!

omega05 · 2022-09-07T15:56:39+00:00

Where was the date at?

zapadz · 2022-09-07T17:29:32+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHfAMh6Edm4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wX4rSFdp1-A

rusty344 · 2022-09-07T18:25:24+00:00

Maybe she realised early on you have a shitty personality or something, or you’ve also overestimated your own attractiveness

Allee_x · 2022-09-07T20:50:21+00:00

Even if you consider yourself better looking than her that doesn't mean she'll have chemistry with you on a date.

Maybe she liked your looks or something from your profile/texting so she went on a date with you but then she just didn't feel the attraction.

And again. Even if she's ugly by your standards that doesn't mean she's obligated to be attracted to you as somebody more attractive than her (again, by your standards).

CocoBabeinNYC · 2022-09-07T21:18:44+00:00

Unattractive chicks can smell desperation as well as super attractive ones.

Necrosaro_123 · 2022-09-07T22:11:55+00:00

My best suggestion based on what you shared:

- Stop using Tinder or other dating apps.

- Work on yourself (Fitness and Fashion).

- Work on Social Skills (No one wants to date a guy with no charisma).

- Stop giving up just because one rejection. This is part of the game, so get used to it and move on.

- Work on that Self-Esteem, because that is being reflected to other people you meet, poor self-esteem is crystal clear to women, they can smell it. Also being needy, they hate that.

- Start doing "cold-approach" instead of hidding in your home looking at profiles on Tinder.

Do your homework, there are many points to improve. Good luck.

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