Girls, does texting back quickly make me seem needy? [recovered]

dump_fool · 2022-08-29T21:03:11+00:00

I just reply whenever the fcuk i can, if i can in the moment, i stop myself for a moment to rethink what i write - other than that you are over-complicating.

Mc_Dickles · 2022-08-29T23:51:33+00:00

Just reply when you want and accept the fact that things move at HER pace. If she wants you around, she will keep replying, no matter what speed, fast or slow. Girls that don't want you around will simply not respond. This sub needs to get rid of this idea that they gotta do a special move or time their actions juuuust right to get the girl. Nope.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-08-29T23:37:39+00:00

Mirror her behavior.

A_Successful_Loser · 2022-08-30T06:03:37+00:00

You gotta be a bit mysterious. It's part of the game, and it's stupid as hell, but it does work. You shouldn't always reply right away. It also adds pressure to the other person and makes them feel like they need to reply faster.

Galized · 2022-08-30T05:04:42+00:00

Change the pause between your messages continuously. Sometimes be super fast. In other occasions wait deliberately for some minutes. From time to time, wait for hours. Girls can be attracted by curiosity. And the more unpredictable you are, the more they'll stay stuck with the idea.

epilamun · 2022-08-29T21:00:33+00:00

Unfortunately so man, I have the same curse

lostmymuse · 2022-08-29T22:13:25+00:00

You’re never too busy doing something to think about your phone? That’s the real culprit.

CapableProperty3959 · 2022-08-30T03:28:52+00:00

bro ur intentions are outstanding, I am also like you. However, replying within a min after getting the msg will decrease your vaule not only in her sight but also ur friends will feel the same. All of them will think that you are for them each and every time. And then they will start using you as a toy.

And understand the difference between liking her & loving her. If you are just attracted towards her then this will lead you to detrimental results after somtime.

incognito3107 · 2022-08-30T04:42:30+00:00

If you get too excited for her giving you an attention, then it may become an issue. Otherwise, just do what you want.

TomHutch1 · 2022-08-30T15:22:29+00:00

Sometimes this happens to me. Also I’ll question and second guess myself of what to say back.

But here’s the thing.

If you’re looking for wife material, not just sex, then remember this. If it’s meant to be, nothing I do will screw it up. Texting back to soon, waiting too long, saying the wrong thing, etc. if you’re vibing together, you can do very little thinking and still have a good text convo that you’re happy with.

And by extension, if it upsets you now that she takes long to reply, then you’ll hate it more after a couple years together. (Again this is assuming you want wife material)

If you’re just looking to score, just do and say what makes her take her clothes off. 😂 - if that’s your goal, then don’t reply quick. Let her chase you a little too.

TheTruth221 · 2022-08-30T05:48:15+00:00

rule of pinky is to wait the same amount of time + 25 minutes

zapadz · 2022-08-30T01:44:32+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oLNXJqSRyU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BuvK9BjSO6o

EllieLovesJoel · 2022-08-30T09:13:24+00:00

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Title	Girls, does texting back quickly make me seem needy? [recovered]
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Date	August 29, 2022 8:59 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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