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[–]YouGotTangoed 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No idea why, but her sending a friend request on fb is hilarious to me. Maybe that’s how these older women flirt?
[–]bottleOfWater0 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think so, we already follow each other on insta since ages lol. I dont really use fb at all. It seems that she's more active on fb. Tbh it doesn't really bother me, but yea, kinda funny haha
[–]MrUneventful 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well hopefully she is as grown as her age. Be upfront with her, respectfully.
[–]cyrusm_az 46 points47 points48 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Ask her if she’s still with her boyfriend and take it from there
[–]bottleOfWater0 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Great Idea! What if she says yes?
[–]cyrusm_az 84 points85 points86 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then behave yourself lol
[–]Future-Television-28 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂
[–]Jasonhardon 27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
LoL. Don’t ask about her bf. Don’t even bring it up. Just game as usual. If she does bring it up ignore it because she’s the one being the aggressor here not you. You should read some books about text game & use the best stuff to flirt with & escalate after a couple of transactions to a meet up. Be flirty, clever and have fun with it. The important thing is to make her feel good over text. So much so that she’ll want to continue feeling good in person
[–]bottleOfWater0 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks dude. I just got another dm rn from her lol
[–]Jasonhardon 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck! We’re rooting for ya 👍🏼
[–]150420throwaway 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Any recommended books or YT channels that aren’t shit when it comes to game in general?
[–]Jasonhardon 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can just google it. There are a lot of books out there on the subject. Unfortunately you have to practice and try them out to see work works best for you but one rule of thumb I can give you. If what the book says makes no sense, like if it would seem stupid IRL to say, get you into trouble, use common sense and don’t use it. If the advice seems funny, thoughtful and innovative, give it a try. This is where experience comes in. That’s something you have to build up on your own. Since this is time constrained, you can practice the material online first to see what sticks
[–]matturananya 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask if she's interested to meet? If yes! go for a drink if she wants you, she will give you open signals
[–]tudor3325 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What did she say?
Just a casual "Good Morning". She mentioned yestarday she would be coming back today from her holiday. Maybe I should ask her out lol haha
[–]tudor3325 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should ask her out for a coffee. That’s when you will know if she has a bf or not. Take her on the date and have a nice time. Let things go from there. The way I see it, you will probably have sex with her. No woman at that age just suddenly texts you.
[–]Competitive-Bread548 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Keep us posted!
[–]bottleOfWater0 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Sure! So, she asked me what plans ive got for today, told her that ive got nothing planned and asked her whether she has something to do. She said she only needs to get home in the afternoon and that's it. Told her maybe we could do something together. She then said she needs to find a train back home as she's still visiting and enjoying her last day of vacancy. After that she said she'll walk her dog. I asked if she walks her dog alone. She said yes, and i replied that it sounds relaxing. She then said. 'Yes, maybe..' I asked her why maybe? She said she doesn't really know. I said that maybe she just needs some company. Then she didnt reply for half an hour and I thought maybe she thought i was being to direct or rude and decided to change the subject by asking her if she found a train back home. She didn't see or reply yet.
I think I might have fucked up again lol haha
EDIT: it's been about 1h.
[–]FelipepRntscRn 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Just ask her out instead of running in circles. In the form you are asking her stuff, its as if you are asking her for permission. Fckin ask her when she's free for a drink. And see what she says
[–]bottleOfWater0 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
She just asked me to go with her when she walks her dog in about 3 hours lol. I said yes of course. Should I keep it casual or should I be as direct as possible? Im completely lost rn lol
[–]FelipepRntscRn 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Direct as being funny, make eye contact and stuff like that, yea
Direct as asking 'do you want to have sex?' Please no.
Buy a couple of beers and give her one for the walk, notice how she behaves, she might touch you, look at you directly, if any of that happens, go for the kiss lol. Just look at her lips (just like the tv series, it works) and if she stares back at yours its 100% you should, and still if that doesnt happen, go for it boldly.
Of course do that after youve connected for a while, ask her stuff about her, she will enjoy to talk about herself, you drive the conversation by asking her more and more stuff
[–]bottleOfWater0 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Thanks dude! I can definitely do that. Cant believe my dream of scoring a cougar gonna come true(eventually lol) hahah
[–]Sea_Particular_9086 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
We all seem to know what her intentions are. But I would take the conversation in a flirting way to ask her what her intentions were reaching out to you.
I would go direct at this point after you got your answer thats just me, especially since this women is older.
And its not just small talk leading no where.
[–]FelipepRntscRn 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I would advice against asking, she won't want to feel as if she is taking advantage (especially considering she is twice your age), its better that those things feel as if both of you went with the flow, and after they happen, you can just say you couldnt help but do it but you could tell she enjoyed it aswell. Much better approach than wait for her to admit it.
Anyway, good luck and update us ;)
[–]Sea_Particular_9086 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Huh!?! Taking advantage they’re both grown adults she knows what she is doing at her age now with a younger guy.
Why hide your intentions, he’s not trying to be her friend.
[–]FelipepRntscRn 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Who says he should hide his intentions? Problem is, talking about them usually brings nothing vs just acting.
Like, you expect him to ask her what do you want? And she says oh i want just sex. Hahaha no way
[–]Sea_Particular_90861 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I understand where you’re coming from, but if the guys is not confident at his age the older women will play him for acting like a schoolboy.
I’m sure you’ve heard “Im too old for you, you wouldn’t know what to do.” If his talk game ain’t quick with it. He’s out either way
[–]poorwardobservations 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmfao
[–]MarshallsHand 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep us posted mane
[–]ThisMathis1 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whatever happens, use a condom
[–]sethc26 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
have some fun, but dude it is a bad idea to date a 47 year old as a 24 yr old. Don’t know your intentions, but an LTR would be a waste of time. If you share that thinking it’s best to be honest with her upfront, especially since she probably knows what she wants and hopefully she’ll be transparent about it too.
[–]bottleOfWater0 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly i dont want ltr. I just want fun lol
[–]SpiritOfAnAngie 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is she still with her bf?
[–]ftdrain 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The older the women, the more upfront and easy it will be, dont overthink this, just ask her to meet up, I guarantee that she will go 100%, she clearly wants to bone.
[–]Peacebone0001 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Don't message back and forth too much. Ask her if she would like to meet and catch up on things and see how it goes from there.
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