So I recently went on a date with this one girl. At the start of the date we were talking about jewelry. I took her hands and looked at her rings and up into her eyes and it seemed like she liked it.

Later on, I touched her shoulder and she had no reaction.

Later I touched her lower back when guiding her through a door. She kind of slowed down going through the door so it lingered for a while, but didn’t really show too much of a reaction.

At this point, I slowed down out of fear of over doing it. She wasn’t really returning the touching, and she wasn’t showing explicitly positive signs when I did it.

So, like in my title, what do you think when she’s not explicitly positive about your touch, and how often do you touch without over doing it?