Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?

NotABrokieBoy · 2022-07-27T16:59:05+00:00

My friend got a fwb like that. But I think your message was too planned and serious, you should have gone with something more casual, like “You’re cute and I didn’t want to disturb you or anyone else. Hit me up at 123123123 if you’d like to hang out.” Then give it to her while walking out and don’t look back. If she’s interested, she’ll send you a text.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-07-27T17:02:54+00:00

Like the other commenter said, your note was a little too serious and overbearing. Next time, keep it fun, simple, flirtatious

mojojojo2069 · 2022-07-27T21:38:43+00:00

Turn breakers off in library. Lights go out.

Everyone gasps.

You approach table. She looks at you worried about her conference call.

How will they know she attended the meeting if they can't see her?

You look back and give a stupid grin. You whip out two sparklers and say

"Don't worry bebe girl, they going to be able to see how you light up the whole world with that smile"

Then break out into dance and start waving sparklers behind her as she continues the call. The others on the call start cheering and saying how you are awesome guy.

When her call ends. Do not ask her for her number.

She will chase you and say aren't you going to ask me for my number.

You do stupid grin again and say why ask for your number when I have your heart.

Suddenly she's pregnant. It's twins.

Congratulations

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-07-27T17:10:12+00:00

I think it’s fine as a last resort. It shows you have empathy: you see she’s busy and you aren’t going to creepily linger waiting for her video call to end, but you’re still confident enough to attempt to meet her in a respectful way. Update us if she texts you.

whatline_isitanyway · 2022-07-27T20:18:22+00:00

Honestly, I like the idea and I've liked it when it's happened to me.

Gives me a bit more power in the situation, so long as the note-dropper isn't lingering and looming. Maybe a quick wave, if I can spare my attention, so I can put a (hopefully) friendly face to the note and that lets me decide if I wanna move forward and on my own time. Kinda shows you can assert what you want, with respect and give me the space and comfort to do my own thing.

I would say your note is a bit too serious, but I get the vibe. I'm a woman and I have used/left a note or two before and it worked out for me.

ReadyTelephone2395 · 2022-07-27T21:06:01+00:00

Imagine you are a girl, and you see some 30 year old guy eyeing you not saying anything.

Then he randomly comes to you, doesnt say anything but drops a note....

Serial killer vibes.

Ok_Plankton5286 · 2022-07-27T19:19:45+00:00

You didn't do anything wrong, and if she likes you she likes you.

funkmaster322 · 2022-07-27T18:05:16+00:00

idk i think leaving a note shows how much a coward someone is that lack confidence .. I haven’t. done that shit since junior high 😂 ..OP how come you couldn’t have just waited til her video call was over & then just walk up and introduce yourself?

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-27T18:30:33+00:00

How on gods green earth can you think that this is cute and acceptable behavior?

JXMMY11 · 2022-07-27T18:45:20+00:00

It’s valid… I would do the same

Chingu_0320 · 2022-07-27T18:48:52+00:00

If its me, and I am single and available too, there's no hurt for a coffee date. By that time, I will ask that guy again what makes him left the note rather than approaching me directly. The answer can be the determinant of what's next between us.

carlos1973633826 · 2022-07-27T19:43:23+00:00

Lol I would hate it to be a women. My whole life would be a parade of pathetic attempts to try and hookup with me.

Direct-Dance-7050 · 2022-07-27T20:52:28+00:00

leaving notes is creepy af

L0n3W01f_ · 2022-07-27T22:02:06+00:00

If you liked her enough, you should’ve just approached her another time she was free to talk to, so that you could immediately get your answer

Title	Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?
Author	funkmaster322
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	July 27, 2022 4:23 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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