How do you guys look at waiting for sex with a girl who is a virgin and has all qualities to be someone you can a have a serious, long term relationship with?

FreeDependent9 · 2022-07-06T13:36:28+00:00

I think she deserves better than you, and you should just leave her be.

eszibit · 2022-07-06T13:52:53+00:00

Dude, if you really want a serious thing are are happy settling down you hit the jackpot. If you wanna fuck around some more do that and let her find someone else but u said you had plenty of experiences so it's only incremental fun from now on.

If i was you i'd def wait as long as needed, a woman with a good personality submissive that hasn't been on the c**k carousel is a very rare thing. That's wife material

YourDustyLampshade · 2022-07-06T13:42:18+00:00

If you want a serious relationship with this woman, you’ve got to quit worrying about what all you could’ve been doing with other women. That’s not going to help at all. Is there any particular reason why she refuses to have sex or is she simply just afraid? If she’s afraid then easy peasy lemon squeezy, all you’ve got to do is make her comfortable. If for any other particular reason, then you need to respect that. But you also still need to make her want it, make her long for it. And obviously, when you finally do get to it, you need to communicate with her. Figure out what she is enjoying and what she isn’t. Make sure you let her know that you just absolutely fucking love whatever is going on otherwise the insecurities won’t go away.

JanetInSC1234 · 2022-07-06T14:44:33+00:00

Why should she trust you when you're already thinking about sex with other girls? She's probably looking for someone, who, you know, actually loves her.

CloutComputing · 2022-07-06T15:02:18+00:00

I'm a virgin, send her to me please

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-07-06T13:17:10+00:00

I married a woman who lost her virginity to me. I’m divorced now. Our sex life was decent when we were dating, but as time went on, it really started to suffer. She was closed-off sexually. She was self-conscious about letting me go down on her, rarely tried different positions, etc.

Most guys get this idea in their head that marrying a virgin or a woman with little experience is the goal, but they often are insecure sexually, especially if they grew up in a religious setting, or body insecurities are there.

You don’t want to be with someone who gives everyone a turn, but it’s much better to be with a woman long term who has some experience, knows what she likes, is kinky, and gets turned on by giving and receiving oral. Just because a woman has sexual experience doesn’t mean she won’t be faithful.

MywarUK · 2022-07-06T13:54:12+00:00

Trust me, you’re going to look back wt this post in a few years and kick your self. Some virgins stay with their partner, where as some also then want to experience sex with other people. Start shy, end up a sex freak…. Careful which one you got right now ;)

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-06T13:45:16+00:00

Lol for wanting a virgin. Your funeral man

Draigi0n · 2022-07-06T13:58:37+00:00

Virginity is a social construct that needs to be erased. Imo

Mornin23 · 2022-07-06T14:18:12+00:00

1- you can be banging other girls in the meantime. If she’s making you wait for sex, then you don’t need to commit to her.

2- she probably isn’t a virgin bro

3- my go-to here would be literally not to let her touch me intimately until she was ready to have intercourse. Kissing, whatever. No blowjobs, handjobs, all that - just tell her “you’re obviously not comfortable and that’s ok” or whatever. She’ll think that restraint (you’re not so needy as to need a shitty hand/blown job from a virgin) is hot, and on a better note then she’s actually not doing anything until she’s ready

ReorgAtty · 2022-07-06T14:56:03+00:00

I think being exclusive with someone you’re not fucking is actually absurd. I also think spending 2 months with someone you’re not fucking is absurd.

You can do what you want, but it blows me away that you’re willing to invest another 2-3 weeks. Even if it happens tomorrow, is the juice worth the squeeze? Feels like you’re chasing her.

hustle_sk · 2022-07-06T15:08:17+00:00

As someone that is now in their 30's the one girl I regret breaking up with that could have changed my life for the better was that type of girl you're referring to. I was 16 at the time. I'd do anything to go back in time and change it. I've never met a single person like her in my life. If she meets all the qualities you desire then Don't think with dick you will regret it later. Sex should not be the deciding factor. Just my 2 cents.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2022-07-06T14:25:40+00:00

Fuck other chicks and don't focus on her

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