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Dalbergia12 · 2022-07-01T04:41:26+00:00

Buddy you actually don't have a gf. Start looking else where, when she texts tell her it obviously isn't working for her, and wish hey a good life. I really hope she hadn't been fleecing you for expensive meals and gifts. Better luck next time!

AngeloMacon · 2022-07-01T03:51:20+00:00

You already know the answer, right? You're just looking for absolution?

sussykeke · 2022-07-01T12:37:51+00:00

Asking for a kiss is a no go. A kiss shouldn't be asked for, you should go for it when the time is right

bloontsmooker · 2022-07-01T14:38:17+00:00

How often do y’all see each other? Can’t really answer without knowing the amount of regular physical proximity.

This could go many different ways, but if everything is on the level and she genuinely likes you romantically, this sounds like a trauma response or the result of religious shame.

I think you need to have a direct conversation about physical expectations, and if they don’t seem like they have the potential to line up, y’all should just stay friends.

MermaidOfScandinavia · 2022-07-01T23:33:30+00:00

She is still young and isn't ready. Either wait for her to be ready or move on to someone more mature. She shouldn't be pushed into something she isn't ready for.

Edit.

I should add that you could be direct with her ask if she sees you more as friends then someone she wants to move forward with. But the way it looks from here is that you are not on the same page and that creates tension might make it difficult to move forward at all. Listen to your gut.

CHANGO_UNCHAINED · 2022-07-01T04:56:23+00:00

Lotta negativity in these comments. But hey, it is very weird to be in an adult relationship where you don’t even kiss. Are you from a particularly conservative culture? Is this kind of thing at least normal where you’re from? What kind of experiences do your friends have in this area? I think you need to chat with her pretty straight up about this if you want to move forward. Explain that a kiss is a completely normal (and not to mention enjoyable) part of intimacy and relationships—so you’re wondering why she doesn’t feel like giving it a go. It’s not like sex, where there are certain risks associated. Kissing is really just for fun and also a great way to connect physically before committing to the whole act. If she’s nervous about something, maybe she can tell you then. Again, I’m not sure what it’s like in your culture, maybe she thinks she’ll get a reputation or something. If that’s the case, you gotta reassure her that you’re really into her, and it’s just a kiss, and that nobody will judge her for kissing her boyfriend. If, like some other posters are insinuating, she is not really committed to you and is just using you, this will probably come out in these discussions in one way or another.

Usual_Assistance8667 · 2022-07-01T17:26:23+00:00

I've gotten blowjobs from woman I haven't known for more than a day. Cut of th dead weight, move on, do better.. You deserve it

Marcoscondit · 2022-07-02T18:45:24+00:00

2 months and haven’t kissed, bro grow some balls

Vinegar_Tits_9 · 2022-07-01T04:11:37+00:00

It definitely doesn’t sound like you guys have been together for months… Something is wrong with this picture, and I don’t think it’s you. To be waiting for months for just a kiss on the cheek is strange and unusual and I think you’re probably better off as BFFs. Time to look for someone new I think.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-07-01T04:44:06+00:00

A girlfriend that you've never even kissed, now I've heard it all.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-07-01T15:48:54+00:00

She doesn’t let you kiss her on the cheek after months ? Move on. Her gay male friend gets more action.

DropTopJosh666 · 2022-07-02T15:11:34+00:00

She talking to other guys brodie, and she’s not your girlfriend…

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