When it comes to looking for a girl that is wife/gf material would it be a red flag if you fooled around with her on date 2? Think everything but no sex and no bj

ScaryPerformance3872 · 2022-06-21T18:21:13+00:00

You insecure mofos lmao. What about live life and stopping being a paranoid fuck? Stop asking the f internet for the smallest of things. It's YOUR f opinion that should matter.

boxmail2800 · 2022-06-21T18:24:19+00:00

Totally ok. The weird part is you thinking it’s something . Nobody cares it only matters if you think it matters

fishnbuds · 2022-06-21T21:01:55+00:00

That's a bit ridiculous. Fooling around doesn't mean there is anything wrong with her. That would mean your not husband- boyfriend material.

Usually when you start dating someone you would generally escalate things physically until you get to sex.

Depending on age . If your older than a teenager 2nd or 3rd date is fairly common.

Elbynerual · 2022-06-21T18:52:42+00:00

I don't follow... what makes it a red flag at all?

eszibit · 2022-06-22T00:35:09+00:00

You have to make up your mind about it. The thinking was that if she fools around with you fast then you can't trust her in a marriage because she will fool around with somebody else too, fast.

Everyone has different opinions about it, but from my experience when you get something that is of high value and not easily accessible to anyone you will treasure it more.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-21T21:32:38+00:00

That’s absolutely false. If there’s a connection and you hookup you shouldn’t think any less of her, or her of you.

MegaManXanax · 2022-06-22T00:52:03+00:00

They say that because they assume she’s done that with a lot of other dudes. Up to you to decide whether you think she does or not. But no BJ, no sex, ehhh. That leaves handjobs and making out. If it’s just making out honestly no reason to care.

Beneficial-Tip-4044 · 2022-06-22T09:37:06+00:00

id rather her have sex w me early on then try some bullshit & make me wait lol, dated someone who did that and it just made me resentful she made me wait but not other people. it shouldnt matter if she does it early it means she likes u alot

incognito3107 · 2022-06-22T09:47:16+00:00

I guess if you hook up quickly, it is just more likely that it would end up being one night stand or friends with benefits. Most of the time quick escalation just means that you have really good chemistry, emotions and comfort are strong and it is only natural to give in to biology.

montanalombardy · 2022-06-22T10:38:08+00:00

No a red flag would be if she fooled around with another dude.

Dramatic-Ad7687 · 2022-06-22T14:54:18+00:00

Don’t get married

Title	When it comes to looking for a girl that is wife/gf material would it be a red flag if you fooled around with her on date 2? Think everything but no sex and no bj
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Date	June 21, 2022 6:08 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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