Since men have an intense biological need to procreate fruitfully, monogamy can be seen as a kind of prison for a lot of us who were once decent PUAs. High quality women are usually the ones who push for monogamy and make it a deal breaker because they ultimately fear losing the man to a hotter woman. Studies have shown that women are more worried about emotional infidelity, like the man falling for another woman, than physical. Since it's difficult for a lot of women to remove emotions from sex, to these women, any sex has the potential for a man to fall in love and leave the relationship, but as men we know that sex can be a purely physical thing so monogamy over time makes less and less sense. Escorts are a great example of this where emotions are 100% removed from the act of sex.

So, if you sleep with escorts on an occasional basis to alleviate your needs but still provide love to your partner, use condoms, only spend enough that it doesn't impact your relationship, and ensure that she never finds out (easy to do with an escort vs a side girl)...

Is it morally wrong? Does anyone have experience with this?