How to get a girl who gets repelled when you show interest for her?

Baby_willie · 2022-06-15T11:14:02+00:00

Start seeing someone else. It’ll distract you amongst other things.

AyWhatITIS · 2022-06-15T12:55:10+00:00

You can't negotiate sexual attraction. Move on. Evolution hates needy men. Needy men = coward= dead lineage. Women are the vulnerable sex. Fuck another girl and don't look back honestly not worth jt

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-06-15T13:03:21+00:00

Why would you want to be with someone where you have to constantly monitor your behavior? Being needy is unattractive to anyone, so if you’re truly being needy you should be aware of that. But if she constantly is pulling away, that sounds like hell.

Ability to be yourself in a relationship is paramount

daivaras24 · 2022-06-15T12:03:02+00:00

You dont. Stay away from stoxic girls like that

mrblack-- · 2022-06-15T13:31:12+00:00

You don’t, move on

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-15T13:54:26+00:00

Tell her how you feel as honestly as you can in two sentences or less. Let her get pushed away. Then you can walk away knowing you did everything you could.

She on the other hand will beat herself up for sabotaging. After she’s had some time to process she likely will start coming after you. Could take a few weeks or a couple months. That doesn’t mean she’ll be ready to date, you could end up in the same revolving pattern with her.

You really are always going to have a bad time though if you’re trying to get one specific woman. It has to be a numbers game to some extent, you must be willing to walk and pursue other options.

I_am_the_guru_ · 2022-06-15T14:04:01+00:00

How would yiu handle a hot potato, you would drop it right? Drop her and find someone that will appreciate the attention that you provide.

ZachMoore88 · 2022-06-15T16:54:09+00:00

This can only end in disaster if you keep it up.

revente · 2022-06-15T17:56:38+00:00

But are you fucking her or just 'platonic dating'?

OpenComparison · 2022-06-15T19:09:23+00:00

Girls like this like real life shit.

So best advice is to not text her too much, be busy/ see other people/ hobbies, and just show her a good time in real life when you do hang out

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-15T11:32:57+00:00

Are you even making out and having sex because if not then you aren’t really dating her

Healthy_Working3911 · 2022-06-15T15:23:38+00:00

If y'all aren't dating see other women make her carve your attention not hers asshole rule 1 on 1

nxdu_ · 2022-06-15T16:45:12+00:00

Lol you drop her.

caesarfecit · 2022-06-15T18:20:34+00:00

When a girl is into you, she won't make things difficult.

When a girl is neutral, she'll only be difficult when you push her boundaries.

When a girl is unreceptive and/or playing games, her boundaries will be a moving target and any expression of neediness will be exploited, rather than overlooked.

Do the math, OP. This one ain't worth your time. Spare yourself the pain of chasing girls who just ain't that into you and just ain't worth it.

You're hating this game because it's one you won't win and aren't meant to win. She's telling you to run.

MooseWhiskers · 2022-06-15T22:34:49+00:00

Ignore her completely. Move on, find someone worth it. If she interacts with you, be polite and confident, and then leave the conversation as quickly as possible. Be done with her.

Title	How to get a girl who gets repelled when you show interest for her?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	28
Date	June 15, 2022 11:03 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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