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[–]jaysucess1_ 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No long distance relationships. Waste of time. Plus someone’s bound to cheat. Just approach more oneitis.
[–]vroomvroomski 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, if you really like talking to her then have some phone sex and invite her for a future trip or hit her up when ur in the area.
If the girl really really likes you she might move to wherever you are but that's harder to do lol, I've pulled it off tho
[–]alent3976 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First of all, have you thought long and hard about if you really want a new relationship with someone that’s 5 hours away?
[–][deleted] 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
jesus christ another loser post. Just go outside and find girls
[–]jaysucess1_ 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂
[–]newintown11 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmfao 🤣
[–]Talktomeifyouneed2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fr .
[–]Thin_Protection5616 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ya, it's extra bad today. The mods are doing their jobs and keeping this place virgin-central.
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[–]Striking-Panic3120 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FR
[–]CompetitionFair7686 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don’t.
Most girls (heck most people) don’t like long distance relationship because they are re not really relationships.
Those who agree to go on a distance relationship do it only because they were already an actual thing in person for a significant time, but circumstances forced them to be apart from each other.
So starting a long distance relationship from scratch with a girl you have nothing with, over the phone is something 99.999999% of girls will reject straight away.
Pretty much you are wasting your time here. Not to mention that the phone is for setting up dates not to get to know her let alone maintaining a relationship with a girl you haven’t even kissed first
Being her friend sure, but nothing more than that. Most girls will gladly be your friend over texts, but at the same time they will date guys they can actually meet in person in a very frequent basis.
So there is no point for you to be her long distance friend while she is fucking other dudes without telling you about it, because it’s none of your business.
[–]ftdrain 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No more than 1 hour distance relationship bro
[–]MattPruga 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
when ur desperate you are willing to enter a long distance relationship with a girl you just met, showing you have no other option. Go out and meet women
[–]ecish 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Long distance friends with benefits are cool I guess, message casually and meet up every once in a while and bang. But long distance relationships are terrible, don’t do it.
[–]Dyxo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Forget about this, not worth it
[–]sail-the-universe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Been there. Have done that. Do not recommend.
[–]Fapandwarmshowers 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Long distance relationship cannot be taken seriously. They dont work unless one of you moves to the others city.
[–]MrBlack__ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don’t
[–]Only_Commercial_774 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]the_boss_jos007 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t. Move on.
[–]Ok-Feature-5197 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The goal of texting is to setup a date bro, take her out, escalate on second date venue and if shes on bounce her back to yours, show your intent or you might be in friend zone
[–]BeeHoBe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to Montreal with the boys for a weekend and message her that you’re in town. If she says yes, great. No, there will be plenty of other French girls in Montreal.
[–]stanthemilkman88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Long distance relationships are not a thing. This clearly is not a thing.
[–]jdgrazia 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WHY WOULD YOU WANT THIS
[–]Placated_Venom 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't, nor should you
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
🙃 bro how did you approach her ? tips/advice please
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What did you say ? like "hey I like your shoes, where are you from ?" just curious I live in a small town in India and here I have never seen/heard a person just start a conversation with a stranger (girl). You have to be somewhat related to her like same college or something I sometimes find it very interesting that there are people who just go and talk to the girl they like without any hesitation.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🥲 good for you man
Is the schools there similar to the one showed in "euphoria" series ??
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’ve never tried to date a girl long distance but the girlfriends I’ve had who started on Instagram or Facebook normally the conversation would progress over a number of days or weeks. Often I would let the conversation die out then post a good looking selfie or something interesting or comment worthy the next day.
Absolutely do what feels right though because if you’re going to lose you want to lose following your instincts. But to me pushing hard online and trying to escalate is just going to scare her off. Have a fun little convo. Go do your own thing for a day or two. Post something that might get her attention, resume convo, etc
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok so the way it usually goes is we’ll have mutual friends. I add her. If her profile is private I wait until it’s accepted. I’ll drop a like or two. Wait a week. Maybe comment a story (not everything she posts. Just like a couple things here and there)
Then she’s usually the one to inbox me first. I’ve had several girls including one I dated for a year use “um excuse me but do I kno u????”
My response is usually like “No sorry I actually know your friend ______ and I just thought you were pretty. Not trying to be creepy”
Every time I’ve said that I expected a block because of how they came in but it always goes over very well.
“Oh no you’re fine I was just wondering!!! Yeah they’re a trip” etc
Then she likes a couple of your things. You ask her out, it goes from there.
I have never in my life sent the first message to a girl on social media trying to get a date but I’ve had probably 10 girlfriends come from across MySpace, Facebook, Instagram, etc over the years. Just send a couple likes, expect nothing. She may reach out.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks good advice
[–]HotEstate1442 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what is wrong with cam sex? i am trans and was having cam sex with a trans girl, it wasnt bad
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