I look awful. How can I even find a decent woman?

Peejmeister24 · 2022-06-11T18:57:48+00:00

I know you hate to hear this but right now just isn’t the time in your life for you to be chasing women. Work on yourself for a few years and the difference in your quality of life will be astounding. Godspeed brotha

Electric_kundalini · 2022-06-11T18:07:28+00:00

You need therapy my browski

angry_fap21 · 2022-06-11T18:07:42+00:00

In a similar position but I graduated college last month. sounds like you need to yolo a job. That’s what I’m doing before anything.

I recommend doing something remote if you can.

Maybe take the time you have now without a job to go to the gym and lift heavy to bulk up. I’m also skinny so I relate

If you have no degree/skills, yolo Wendy’s and become a manager. Something is better than nothing

Fapandwarmshowers · 2022-06-11T19:09:19+00:00

seek help you sound mentally ill

sexsex69420irl · 2022-06-11T21:07:49+00:00

Find an ugly girl then.

RanchHandlher · 2022-06-11T21:44:18+00:00

First sentence proves you don't lack humor or creativity.

Being too skinny is an easy thing to change. Increase calories, and lift. Heck just go get a job in construction or something physically demanding. That will also solve your lack of money and give you gainful employment. It's summer, so even if you're in school you can achieve that. If you choose construction, you'll also learn a trade and will develop useful knowledge.

Good luck.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-12T01:32:32+00:00

So let me get this straight.

You say you are ugly, deformed, don’t have charming social skills, you don’t have any talents, you still live with your parents and you have no job?

Well, i’m not gonna lie to you, your odds at finding a person who likes you if that is your situation is very small like less than 1%.

Now if you do something to change at least some of those circumstances; your odds might increase.

like working out and eating healthy, getting a job, getting plastic surgery, etc…

But if you refuse to change anything about your circumstances then you will most likely die alone.

revente · 2022-06-11T20:16:01+00:00

You may look completely normal, or at least fixable and just suffer from body dysmorphia.

Post your photos on /r/amiugly to get feedback.

Beemer_Fan · 2022-06-11T18:58:50+00:00

How old are you?

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-11T19:10:18+00:00

do you shower?

Southofsouth · 2022-06-11T23:32:44+00:00

Let me guess. You want a girl who is pretty. Have you asked out a girl who is in your league?

nopenotmedude · 2022-06-11T20:53:09+00:00

Buy a hat. Hit the gym.

Big_P4U · 2022-06-12T00:21:44+00:00

Don't look awful

5ive_Rivers · 2022-06-12T00:22:23+00:00

Make a conscious effort to cultivate an abundant, can-do mentality. Solutions flow from this.

IndianAudi · 2022-06-12T00:56:17+00:00

There are many decent women that may not be beautiful but would love your affection and time. So maybe focus on making their lives better by having you in it?

Only_Commercial_774 · 2022-06-12T06:31:56+00:00

A girl is the last thing you need you have to start getting an income than work on your body than gain confidence to work on your face and if you need pussy which Ik we all do go out and pay for it

celestial-kitty2 · 2022-06-12T08:31:56+00:00

Well you feel so low because you know you have nothing to offer a partner and realize you’re personally a dime a dozen. You have nothing to offer a partner because you’re a baby in terms of your life and that’s more typical of 20 year olds than you think. You’re at the beginning, meaning there is action required of you to find passion in life, gain life experience, and grow before including a partner. Maybe unpack why you feel like you need a partner so bad to begin. What makes up your ethics, convictions and goals in personal development? Do those even align with this gf fantasy yet? Then once you know that stuff you can even accurately measure what you find attractive. You’re talking leagues but aren’t old enough to compete or to watch most of the time (it’s an analogy, idk you).

Tough_Ad_6754 · 2022-06-12T13:19:17+00:00

It's doesn't matter bruv, if a man like Stephen Hawking can fuck few bitches in his life then you still have lot of time now keep your head up, always smile & thanks God for this precious life, anyhow if a bitch reject you for any reason just remember you dodge a bullet from getting a STI. Cheers

Title	I look awful. How can I even find a decent woman?
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Date	June 11, 2022 5:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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