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west_herbert · 2022-06-05T11:28:59+00:00

If she doesnt fuck you early and makes you wait youre not as desirable/sexy as you think.

epimpstyle · 2022-06-05T09:14:23+00:00

It is not a science and I said over ten times on Reddit that every time depends upon the type of girl you approach. This is the easiest explanation I found after approaching girls for the last few years.

- If you approach a business lady on the streets, she has standards, she can not do all kinds of things because she has a name, she has high-value friends and neighbors.

- If you approach a girl who maybe is dressed well but their status is low, then you will be able to take her home, but from my point of view, it is easy to find such girls because they will ask you to do all kinds of small favors, including that she is thirsty and she needs a drink or her legs are hurting and she needs a taxi to go in another place, etc.

The single way to find what kind of girls you have in front of you is to talk to them otherwise it is impossible to know because you are not a fortune-teller.

mangocakefork · 2022-06-05T10:13:11+00:00

Sure. She might just have eaten spicy af food that day. Or she might just be sleeping on it for a day or two to see if you’re gonna be a loser. But your positivity is good.

Snakehead004 · 2022-06-05T14:14:12+00:00

Each person and situation are different. Sometimes it means she's really into you like you say.. Other times she's still trying to decide. Seduction, like life is amazingly complex.

I will say, when the sexual chemistry is so good she just CAN'T wait for the second date, it's a good thing for this sub. Not necessarily open to a ltr but if you play your cards right almsot guarantee she will be. People tend to fall hard and fast for the ones they have very strong sexual chemistry with. Especially women imo.

2022-06-05T12:12:39+00:00

Or you may just not be considered an ONS material in certain circumstances. Or mood and vibe are improper. It really should come out naturally, if you are feeling like going all in, you should, but it is not the case for many situations.

SoberDragon1st · 2022-06-05T12:53:04+00:00

daddysgotanew · 2022-06-05T13:40:56+00:00

No. The quicker she fucks the more she likes you, or wants something out of you. Sexual desirability is good, wanting you for utility is not. I had a BPD chick who wanted it constantly for the first 2 weeks, then she said the biggest fucking red flag statement I’ve ever heard- “oh the honeymoon period is over, we’re way past that”. I just said well I guess I’m done too then and she pikachu faced me LMAO. I already knew she was nuts and I was done too. I guess she thought I’d just go “ok” like all the other little beta fags she dated. Crazy bitch.

But anyway, fucking early and often is the best way to go about it. If a woman doesn’t want to fuck, she can be alone by herself.

mzdebo · 2022-06-05T13:37:49+00:00

As a female I can say that I wait until after a few dates. If I’m into a guy then we are texting and I’m asking about all kinds of including sex.

Before when I was younger it’ll be on the second or third date if I liked a guy. But I’d also let him know if it would be a ONS or ongoing.

Now that I hit 40, it’s one date and a ton of talking during the following week or so. Within that time I know if I want to sleep with him or not. I let him know and why. I’ll say that 90% of them I haven’t slept with. Our wants and needs just didn’t line up.

So maybe have that conversation about what she’s looking for, her wants, needs and let her know yours. You’ll be surprised

Good luck

lilbuttman · 2022-06-05T09:20:36+00:00

This is you making an excuse for yourself to feel better because your not "sexy" and not physically desirable by women. And that you wil have to wait till your older for a woman to finally see you as desirable.

I know this coz I'm in same situation

Yeah I do feel good I'm a high quality guy, but it sucks sometimes. My advice, let girls go. They'll come to you. Trust me. And be yourself,

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-05T15:47:25+00:00

Lol u met this girl on bumble, what u expect

Mc_Dickles · 2022-06-05T14:31:14+00:00

Sounds like there’s no alcohol. That will kill all curiosity as you’ll be brave enough to ask why and she’ll find fun in telling why 😭

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2022-06-05T15:03:05+00:00

Some people like having fun with people without the added risks of having sex with someone

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