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[–]theseoulplayer 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is exactly true... if you believe it to be true.
Just like height, your voice, or that pimple on your nose, they will care about the things that you internalize being important. If you think you can't get girls because of (insert pusillanimous reason here), then you are right.
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100% accurate.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m right no matter what. Girls like white Boys more than asians. It’s 100% true. Maybe if I was rich they’d consider
[–]theseoulplayer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it makes you feel any better, I don't dislike you because you're Asian. I dislike you because you're an excuse-making self-aggrandizing twat.
Take responsibility for yourself and your outcomes, stop putting it on other people to make success happen in your life.
[–]Jay-Ames 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I'm black and i get with women from every race. So apparently that whole thing is in your head.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Naw I’ve stopped trying to chase girls, no point
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What state ?
[–]Jay-Ames 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
State? What do you mean?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He means what state of America do you live in assuming you're American
[–]Jay-Ames 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not from America. I'm European. But that is not important. The important thing is not to take race into consideration. You're a guy, she's a woman. Guy's like women and women Ike guys. End of story
Anything you put more into your mind will only create roadblocks you'll never overcome.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know I was just answering your question for him
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Any experience’s you’d like to share that made you come to this conclusion?
[–]librkhk 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If what you’ve said is true, getting your engineering degree and have a bit of money wont change anything lol
[–]TheAestheticKing 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You sound like a whole ass bitch. Fix that attitude and watch things change. We need people to be blunt again when necessary, and right now it definitely is. Look, the world don’t care about your excuses. You either work with what you got or you stay single and Jack off. You got this I wanna see you in 3 months post how attitude changed the game
Tbh jacking off actually really helps getting rid of the urge of sex and gets women off my mind. I’m looking into ways to lower my sex drive
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
girls only like guys with confidence. they don't like guys who blame their "race" and have victim/passive attitudes. shit like this pisses me off because some naive non"white" dude is gonna see your post/comments and think "OH NO GIRLS DONT LIKE ME CUZ IM NOT WHITE" and start feeling insecure like you.
It's not your fault tho the media brainwashed you
True and also money doesn’t hurt either
[–]jtaylor27141 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I’m a tall, white ‘pretty boy’. Been on the dating apps since September 2021. Have been on 54 first dates since then. Only 3 have progressed beyond the first date. 2 of those were gone by date 3 not by my choice. The other one 3 months not by my choice. 51 of those first dates have made out with me on the first date. I asked those 51 for a 2nd date and was typically ghosted or told there ‘was no spark’.
I am still single.
Summary:being a tall white ‘pretty boy’ lands you a lot of dates and making out but you’re still single and not getting laid.
[–]Robofrogg1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Holy hell either you have poor hygiene, or you’re doing something wrong. That is a stupid high failure rate.
[–]jtaylor27141 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Poor enough hygiene that they stick their tongues down my throat..
Let me give you the latest example. Girl texted me like crazy for a week up to first date. We met a Sunday night and within minutes she was touching me. We made out at the end of the night. She messaged me after the date saying it was ‘one of the best dates of her life’ and ‘wanted to go out again’. I setup a 2nd definite date the next Friday. She messaged me super intense for a couple days after, then told me she was going to a baseball game on Wednesday night. No show to the date. Never heard from her again.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yea well I haven’t been on a date once in my life so u still have it better than me buddy
[–]jtaylor27141 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Go to the gym, work on your style, learn a new hobbie. Try to become interesting instead of bitching about life. Take an interest in other people and ask them about their day, interests, life.
Stop buying into political bs being used to divide people for votes. No one cares about the color of your skin. They are looking for someone fun who’s living their best life and get so excited seeing that that they want to join you on the ride.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
whenever someone tells me to find a hobby or better myself it’s like bro, I just told u I’m in engineering. That’s literally my passion and what I grind. Also it has nothing to do with politics, it’s just the truth, white boys on average are better looking than Asian boys
[–]jtaylor27141 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You’re holding limiting beliefs.
Yes you are in engineering but maybe it’s time to try something else you’ve never done before. You don’t have to stop being into engineering.
I was super into music before (playing multi instruments 25+ years as my main passion). As I’ve gotten older I’ve branched out and tried different things (I’m 38 now).
For example, I started going to the gym recently. This has created a new passion for fitness. I am going to be playing in a rec basketball league this summer. Something I never would’ve done otherwise. A great chance to meet new people. I don’t have to be the best at it.
The more things you’re into, know and are curious about, the more you can connect with people. This includes girls.
But ultimately this isn’t about doing these things for girls. It’s about living a fulfilling life.
You’re holding limiting beliefs and need to snap out of it. I’m sorry if my post seems a little harsh but 10 years from now you’ll look back on this time in your life thinking ‘why did I waste so much time playing the victim’.
When you hold limiting beliefs you are unable to reach your full human potential. When you are putting in effort to reach your full potential, this is when you become attractive.
Regardless of my online dating experiences I keep moving on and moving forward as I know I’m a great guy. It’s their loss. There will always be someone right around the corner.
[–]obasmeme 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
54 jeez , u j proving his point right . And if only 3 progressed that means u got no game honestly lmao
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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Good enough game for pretty much all of them to make out with me though.
I’ve seen about another 5 girls since then. The last two were super into me but I stopped talking to both because they were heavy texters, clingy, and wanted to start up a relationship immediately. I just picked up another job and have a few extra curricular things going on so I didn’t really have all the time for the texting and they got mad.
[–]nuclear_man34 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude are you high on fuking meth or wut? Speaking from experience being white or shit doesnt get girls jumping onto you. Its true it will help get some attention but how you convert that attention into something is what matters. Do you think every guy who married/has gf is white? Dont be such a retard. Improve your skills or befriend people who have lot of girl friends. Dont post such lame shit anywhere else.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah fuck that, i’m just going to game and do shit I like. Waste of time trying to find a gf
[–]KuviraPrime 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm sure you've seen plenty of men who are not white in relationships. Watch the youtube channel AlphaM.
[+]Successful-Bowl6635 -8 points-7 points-6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Those r outliers, generally speaking girls want white boys. It’s the truth 100%
[–]KuviraPrime 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah yes, outliers indeed. When you get the money and status from your engineering degree, if you still have a self-pity type of attitude, no self-respecting woman will want you. Do yourself a favor and dive into self-development.
The man that runs AlphaM is hispanic. Please check out his vids.
[–]pua_max 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Money doesn’t significantly help you and status comes primarily from social skills.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bruh once u have money ur guaranteed a gf, everyone knows that
[–]pua_max 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Huh? How does that work? Tell her “Hi I make 200k+?” Like you, I was a student and now I make quite a lot of $$$. Dating didn’t change.
Yup. Dating doesn’t really change unless you’re flashing your wealth. That attracts a certain type of woman. Women will look at you at face value. If you don’t have a flashy car, clothes, expensive watch, they have no idea. Some women will try to figure out how much money you make by asking ‘what do you do for a living’? If you work a menial job but have millions in inheritance or invested, they honestly have no idea.
[–]Alive-Doughnut2345 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
That’s not true. I have a friend who’s got very dark skin and he absolutely slays with women.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yea well I’m Asian and Asian are typically the least attractive dudes
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How do you explain the millions of women married to Asian men?
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Let’s be honest here, generally speaking girls would pick a white boy over a Asian boy
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So millions upon millions of women picked Asian men even though they didn't want them? lol
Hey, whatever you have to tell yourself to get through the day. Keep blaming women for your shortcomings.
Will do 👍
Let me guess, he’s also short and average looking right ?
I am for sure
[–]maxwe11 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Gotta change your mentality my man. You sound like a real drag to be around.
You will always be able to find an excuse as to why women don't like you - but sadly it's not because you are not a white boy, it is because you have a terrible defeatist attitude about this whole thing.
Naw I’m actually pretty chill and I’m sociable with dudes. I usually tell my friends I’m gonna turn gay now and go for dudes lol
[–]Zealousideal6669 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you have no life I mean no social life that you can invite girls into its obvious if you they don't think you the way you'd want to. I know I came from a similar place but I could become from a nice guy who barely could even touch a girl for a guy who's fine with girls and have multiply options. Not flexing with it even though I could be proud of that I'm just an example that it's clear that it's a problem but instead of run away from it rather tryna solve it and turn it into your advantage. That's mentality useful for other areas of your life too not just for girls
[–]No-Historian-6391 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Least you have a good attitude about the situation
That’s true
[–]Ok-Professional2756 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ok so move to a country without white people. Jesus, what is wrong with people who write these sorts of posts…
Hey man I’m just telling the truth
[–]Ok-Professional2756 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok let’s assume you are right.
What are you going to do about it? Move to a no-white country, or keep whining without any benefit to anyone, least of all yourself?
Because option 1 is actually valid, but if you aren’t taking it - that’s on you, not the unjust world of white male superiority
Get a castrations to lower my sex drive
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your truth maybe. Nothing less nothing more. You talked about girls in general and you were not referring to any race. That means you telling that all women of all races are out there are just like white dudes. Even the white girls. Such a statement does not make any sense at all. Some women like guys of another race than their own. And some girls like to stick to their own.
Both ways of living are completely ok.
[–]Cassisdeads 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Where do you live?
Canada
www.asianalphamale.com
[–]Jonny_Ranger 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are you black? Asian? Or what? Anyway, doesn't really matter. It has nothing to do with that, it has all to do with your appearance, charisma, fun, charm and confidence. White people have no privilege if theyre ugly, ungroomed, uncharismatic and with no sense of humour. So race or color doesn't matter at all... Anyway, why would you take care of yourself, workout, groom, look good just to get girls? Do it for yourself bro, get stronger physically and mentally, feel good, learn new shit and don't be dependent on any women. If you find one you like and who you can trust, then fine. Otherwise do you, invest in yourself and have fun.
[–]Successful-Bowl6635 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m Asian, and I’m just going to do things I enjoy like gaming,anime, my engineering degree
[–]Jonny_Ranger 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lifting is fun too, but do you then. If you like engeneering Im sure youll be able to get a decent job
[–]MrThrowawayXD999 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Where you from?
[–]quadfintryfin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
White girls like non-white dudes
Non white girls like white dudes
Everyone wants what they didn’t grow up seeing
[–]Zealousideal6669 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
False. Okay had negative experiences but girls into personality not race. You can be black, white, Chinese. It doesn't matter. Stop chasing girls is a good idea, it's better if they chase you but you can't do anything about your race. Ofc some girls won't date black guys, some girls only date black guys. It is what it is. It depends on her but you still can be the best version of yourself if you got your game, appearance and social life right. So it's time to develop yourself
All I care about is my engineering degree and watching anime and playing games. I just wanna lower my sex drive and get girls out of my head
[–]Robofrogg1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow and I keep seeing non-white dudes with wives and girlfriends. Wait, come to think of it, there are entire continents where the majority of couples are BOTH non-white. But I guess that is just media propaganda or something…..
Ok so what? Like I said generally speaking girls like white boys more
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