[17M] I want to lose my virginity ASAP to get over a mental hurdle, any advice is appreciated.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-08T08:37:11+00:00

Find the sluttiest girl in your school and run game on her

vardarac · 2022-05-08T09:07:29+00:00

I lost my virginity at 24. I had opportunities before that, and mixed thoughts about whether I should have done it earlier, but ultimately I am very happy that I lost it with the woman I chose to lose it with.

The problems in your mind will almost certainly not be solved by losing your virginity, because they are not caused by the fact that you are a virgin. They are caused by what is causing you to be a virgin. Perhaps you are starved of intimacy, affection, or validation, or all three. Perhaps there is something you do, or some way you behave, that makes women not want to be around you.

Putting your dick in something will not change this. I wish I could have given my seventeen year old self the same advice.

Andress1 · 2022-05-08T12:35:35+00:00

Sex is really not a big deal, but sometimes in order to understand that you need to have sex to see it for yourself.

Good luck man.

TheOmnipotentKoi · 2022-05-08T03:54:20+00:00

Touch grass

PM_ME_FEMALE_ASS · 2022-05-08T07:18:08+00:00

This comment section did not disappoint

NorthJacket · 2022-05-08T13:39:05+00:00

Just talk to every girl in your class and ,daily hello or wave, build status and ask a few out to get ice cream after school or some bs. but ask in front of them. play it cool flirt with them both, yata yatta yatta

rohankent · 2022-05-08T04:29:02+00:00

If its legal where you are, go hire a prostitute. Your desperation and goal orientation here is going to repel 99.9% of girls.

spring-type-8614 · 2022-05-08T03:55:44+00:00

what women want is usually a high-status, financially well-off, influential guy who make them feel safe. honestly, at age of 17, you probably can't offer anything beside a penis. Women usually do not give out sex freely unless they need to do it because they are attracted to the guy and want to keep him interested and attracted to her. Sex, for the sake of sex, doesn't appeal to majority of women. Your female classmates are probably mostly attracted to guys who are like 24 yo+ or holding out for the college and the real thing, so to speak. your best bet is finding a hooker but if you are a minor in the country where you are from, that's illegal and you should not do it.

JustNefariousness625 · 2022-05-08T04:44:06+00:00

Buy one if it’s that important to you, talking to women naturally takes time and you seem rushed/pressed.

Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-05-08T05:25:10+00:00

A brothel?

hildegardpep · 2022-05-08T12:50:57+00:00

The fact that you do not have enough insight to realize that the majority of 17 year old boys are in exactly the same place as you (“I want to have sex”) is showing how immature you are. What do you have to offer a woman? Your hard cock? Most women could line up 25 hard cocks within minutes. Hard cocks attached to men with experience and knowledge and skill.

You might be ready to stick your cock in a pussy and cum so you can say you are not a virgin. But you clearly don’t have enough emotional or social maturity to be having sex.

H8beingmale · 2022-05-09T07:57:50+00:00

if you feel insecure about being a virgin at your age, its much more common than we think for people to enter their 20s as virgins, 25 seems to be the age when people panic the most

Title	[17M] I want to lose my virginity ASAP to get over a mental hurdle, any advice is appreciated.
Author	BallPro101
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Date	May 8, 2022 3:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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