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[–]TheLegendofMikeHawk 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Give into your primal nature. Don't hold back. Don't even think about it, just do what feels right. She'll love that
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thats solid advice, thanks!!
[–]aporter0131 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What he said man. Don’t be shy and shit. Feel the moment. If it’s slow and passionate go with it. If it gets faster or rougher go with that. Whatever feels right. Most women love when you just take over and do you.
[–]TheLegendofMikeHawk 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get it my dude
[–]Flashy_Ad3890 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I am a woman and 💯percent agree.
[–]FaithInStrangers94 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate on how you would like a guy to go about that?
You can see how asking a guy to go caveman could result in uncomfortable and selfish sex so you would need him to communicate and notice your body responses and so on
[–]Flashy_Ad3890 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I completely agree with you. He needs to pay attention to her responses. But his natural desire showing through and him slowly doing things that he wants to do while changing based on her reaction would be ideal. Obviously being nervous and hesitant would be less attractive then him taking the lead and showing her what he wants while also responding to her and giving her what she wants. I think this is why sex is way better with someone you get to know sexually. You can be your sexual selves together and each get turned on by each other’s natural desire for one another.
[–]TheLegendofMikeHawk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get into your senses, stay out of your head. Your body knows what to do. Take genuine delight in the process. What this looks like is going to vary according to each individual, and some people aren't going to mesh well. Some woman like caveman style, others like a more soft approach. You gotta find out for yourself
[–]TheLegendofMikeHawk -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You and I would get along well.
[–]EnvironmentalRule525 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Alright here’s a step by step basic guide: 1. Get into a comfortable setting, watching a movie for example. Put your arm around her, make her feel comfortable, rub her shoulder. 2. After maybe 20 mins, start making out for a few minutes. A good way to do this is by grabbing her cheek lightly and pulling her into you. Girls get turned on way slower than guys so in general just go slow at the beginning. 3. Guage the situation, if she’s aggressively grabbing your dick it’s on. If she’s not, slowly start rubbing her side, caress her neck and all that shit, slide hand down to her ass, rub it, this will make it basically impossible for her not to be wet if she’s into you. 4. After maybe 10 minutes of making out/heavy petting, SLOWLY start moving your hand towards her pussy through clothes and lightly massage it. Guage where she’s at to slow down or get more intense. 5. If the light is green, start kissing her neck, unbutton her pants, and rub her pussy through her panties. 6. Guide her to the bedroom. 7. Take her pants off and slowly both get naked while rubbing her pussy and making out the whole time. 8. Start kissing her neck and just slowly go down with the kisses, suck her titties, kiss her belly button, and start licking her pussy. Don’t immediately go hammertime on her clit, tease her a lil bit and lick the lips, etc. 9. Gradually build up to a point where you’re licking her clit exclusively in an up and down motion, sucking on it periodically, squeezing her ass/midsection so she feels you are in control and she’s just along for the ride. She’s eventually going to cum super hard. 10. After she cums she will either suck your dick or beg you to fuck her, start missionary and if you like that position you can finish there too. I like to start missionary and finish doggy just ramming the hell out of her, smacking her ass, pulling her hair, etc. most girls love this shit.
Yay you had sex and she had an amazing experience too.
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[–]EnvironmentalRule525 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do not fear premature ejaculation brother. If you cum fast, guess what, she already came, maybe multiple times. You keep fucking until have some stamina. After gettting off once you’ll last literally 10x as long the second round.
Most of all, be confident. Sex is easy. You’ll do great.
[–]FaithInStrangers94 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Some girls really cant orgasm especially with a new partner so I wouldn’t want to put that expectation on anyone but definitely worth trying for it before swapping to penetration
[–]EnvironmentalRule525 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For sure, but in my experience it’s over half that do, maybe over 75%, but my pussy eating skills have been honed over the years lmao.
At worst she’s very hot and bothered and ready to be fucked after a 10 minute pussy eating sesh.
[–]Baadepapa22 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thats a handbook we need! Gonna get it printed to make sure i follow all the steps!
Someone pin that bitch to this subreddit it took me a while to write and is the exact process I have followed for years with great success 🤣🤣🤣
[–]MrBlack__ 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I read this as a girl talking about a guy… I was going to say, say you’re not ready and want to take things slow… then realised it’s a guy looool DO NOT SAY YOU ARE NOT READY😂
[–]mehregan_zare7731 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why would your advice change based on gender? Girls like to fuck too
[–]FaithInStrangers94 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess some think it’s less attractive for a guy to be reserved than a girl
[–]mehregan_zare7731 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not attractive when a girl is reserved
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not rocket science, men and women approach sex differently because of the different ricks…
And Because he might not feel ready until he’s in the moment then nature will can take over. If he tells her he’s not ready she might see you as not confident and just end the whole thing
[–]Both_Move2565 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Hold frame = control ur emotions When she initiates sexual tension don’t run from it can even sit in it. Other guys try to run. Just don’t worry
[–]Sea_Particular_9086 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Accept that shit, and if the girl is aggressive even better. Tease her, to the point she is literally tearing your clothes off and grabbing you to kiss because she can’t bare how much she is attracted to you.
[–]uniqueruntimeerror 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Interesting… why would they run?
[–]Both_Move2565 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some guys can’t handle the sexual tension since it’s hard enough just talking to the chick now she just said something sexual and you think you’ll come off creepy or some shit. As well as being shy but I think it’s because of the inexperience and nice guy programming.
[–]Both_Move2565 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Also when I mean run they run away from the tension! Some guys actually will go away because it’s too much but a lot of guys try to deflect and change subject when in reality if you can keep good sexual tension with a woman she will basically be attracted to you and eventually sleep with you. The sexual tension steers away from the “I see you as a friend” vibe. It makes it clear what you want, what she wants and how confident/comfortable you are about it which women love.
[–]uniqueruntimeerror 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Very interesting points. I think society pushes the nice guy agenda but these guys are never actually nice. They’re just aimlessly trying to employ all sorts of tactics to get lucky at least once. And they’re unable to maintain the tension even when they want more after the fact. The key is like you say to maintain frame and be assertive
[–]Both_Move2565 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Society does remember to be masculine is toxic therefore it engineers average men to be in a feminine/sedated state. Single mother households too create beta males and weak/absent fathers cause this too. Yeah I will say most guys are nice guys and that’s the only game they know and have been programmed to do which is beta game. Seeking approval of women is the narrative spread thru the media but the real shit nice guys area the ones that allow themselves to be put in the friendzone. It’s such a display of scarcity it’s ugh. Also we’ve all heard from a lot of women “I want a nice guy” then they let the bad guy smash it’s quite confusing which adds to the blunder.
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
There’s videos on the internet that show you where things go
[–]mabden 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Insert penis into vagina. ✔
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes yes, I meant more like the mental side of things, how to keep my cool
[–]determinator94 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Basically just don’t think about it too much; don’t give yourself the yips. If she’s DTF, she’s DTF (that also means you also gotta be DTF and bring your A-game)
[–]agroupofone 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's easy, just get a boner and stick it in.
[–]determinator94 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No you mean you get a boner, slap her titties around some, then stick it inside her and pee… well okay fine unless you don’t wanna get her pregnant, then you just pull it out and pee on her leg . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Plz get the reference
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
South park?
[–]anubhav23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love that he wrote plz.
[–]Sandvicheater 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ummm fuck her?
[–]boxmail2800 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why not be cool and communicate with her that it’s been awhile and go for it… you’re probably overthinking it.
[–]thatAwkwardBrownDude 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No! Don’t do this.
[–]boxmail2800 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s obvious it’s his first time or if it’s been awhile might as well be .. there’s no shame in not being experienced. Communication is lubrication …. Be honest because she’s going to know anyway….
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only one way to get experience man
Try peeing on her
[–]Eco-Active 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go for it my Boy - You can always say You could last longer if she wasn’t so damn fine.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have your dad tell you about the flowers and the bees.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make out with her slowly and work your way down to her honey hole and lick it gently but consistently. After a while you feel the primal urge and confidence for PIV
Sometimes it’s better telling the truth, tell her you have few experience, and just try your best
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take your time. Your fingers and your tongue are your greatest assets in getting her off. Wait until she’s orgasmed or as close as you can get her there before you actually have intercourse. The sex with be better for you as well.
[–]DependentAd1504 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't talk much about sex then take control of things and still make things feel like it happened in the moment not because we talked about doing it....!!
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