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caligrown_85 · 2022-04-28T19:53:20+00:00

Honestly I think a lot of women nowadays need the continual input from social media otherwise then don’t feel they are attractive. Pretty sad if you ask me.

eszibit · 2022-04-28T20:01:20+00:00

you ever on a diet when you know what you should do but end up eating cake at 1 am? Sounds a bit like that

There's something wrong there but if the guy is not telling her anything it's not your problem, if i were a betting man i'd give them most 5 years

Janemba_Corvalis · 2022-04-28T20:29:24+00:00

I’ve dated girls who have done this. It never really bothered me BUT they did turn out to be narcissistic as hell. You don’t quite see it at first, but it will always come out. I mean to constantly crave that sort of attention is a huge red flag.

I’d say just let them be. It’s not your battle.

1hatethis · 2022-04-28T20:09:23+00:00

Maybe she just likes to show off her body (some people do), maybe she spends two hours a day in the gym and wants validation. Maybe she’s actually quite insecure and needs constant external input.

There are about a million reasons she could be doing this.

And as an adult, she can do what she wants. It’s between your friend and his girlfriend. None of your business to comment on really.

How’s your love life?

themostgianthorse · 2022-04-28T20:12:54+00:00

What I find interesting is about this is you say “there are no signs of her wanting to play the field” and then “ She’s very active on Instagram and literally every second story/ post is ass/tits.”

You see how those two things conflict?

She is advertising and her guy is not the target audience.

People will behave as poorly as you allow in order to have their cake and eat it too.

Doc_holidazed · 2022-04-28T20:30:18+00:00

Does she have an OF or is she making a career off her Instagram (or trying for a career)? If so, then this makes perfect sense.

Also pornstars, models, actresses all show off their bodies & sex appeal all the time, yet it has nothing at all to do with their feelings towards their partner.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-28T20:33:20+00:00

Guys look at an attractive woman, get a boner and think she's the prize. A woman spends all weekend shopping for make up, $500 dress she will wear once, designer shoes, all so she can go out and people will be impressed with her. What others think of them is the most important thing in the world. So you tell me? Is she really the prize or is the prize the person she's trying to impress?

invaderjif · 2022-04-28T20:35:20+00:00

Hmm, op the sub may need more context to understand. Specifically the instagram or said pictures.

Purely for research purposes and to maximize the value of this post.

1hatethis · 2022-04-28T20:32:35+00:00

Addictions don't stop. Some women become addicted to the feeling of getting attention and the self-esteem boost it brings through positive reactions from posting those kinds of pics. They aren't going to stop just because they're in a relationship.

Lurkingluked · 2022-04-28T21:13:06+00:00

@ her ig though. I want to see how serious she is to her bf

jackzander · 2022-04-28T21:14:02+00:00

Humans like attention and validation, the motivation isn't complicated
Whether or not you'd agree with it is irrelevant, she's not yours
I don't know what sub you should've posted this to, but this isn't it

NorthernThegn · 2022-04-28T21:23:20+00:00

My ex was like that. Posting half nudes to her Snapchat story constantly. It’s a very confusing one to try and navigate. In a way, psychologically, the only reason a woman does something like that is to attract men. Wether they admit it or not. What they get out of it is the question.

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