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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-23T19:57:42+00:00

You need to make statements, assume things about her, make observations, share anecdotes, make witty or humorous comments on what she is saying, tease her on what she does and says, mess with her, be kind of a troll or jester, joke around, make open ended questions rather than close ended questions, give your opinions about what you are talking, say how things make you feel, share stories,…

Renshato · 2022-04-23T22:09:55+00:00

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norwegiandoggo · 2022-04-23T20:07:21+00:00

You try something, you fail, you learn, then you adjust your approach next time based on what you learned. This is the standard model of learning.

Is this model not working for you? If so, where does it go wrong?

2022-04-23T21:54:18+00:00

Stop caring. Stop chasing.

ricagraca · 2022-04-23T20:29:23+00:00

Lost 20 headaches, good job

cormacru999 · 2022-04-24T01:51:46+00:00

Its weird that you know what you're doing wrong but somehow aren't sure what to do. Stop doing the things you clearly know isn't working. Secondly, start looking at what women say they are looking for, what they don't like, etc. Women all over the internet write blogs, essays, articles, post videos, etc. Pay attention to that & adopt good practices.

womenareuseless69 · 2022-04-23T22:51:02+00:00

Game isn’t real….. stop believing in this propaganda bullshit.

Antique_Fish8518 · 2022-04-23T20:51:43+00:00

precizs you are targeting the wrong group of girls then

Contango6969 · 2022-04-23T20:53:59+00:00

Good. Shoot for 100 in the next few months

thomasvector · 2022-04-24T05:21:24+00:00

This won't apply to a lot of people because everyone's body is different, but I find smoking weed before talking helps lol, as long as you don't get too high. Women get bored if they don't feel you're interested and women have way more choices than men due to guys being more thirstier a lot of the time. It takes some time to be able to read the room, but you'll get there.

jayfoxpox · 2022-04-24T07:47:42+00:00

After a decent text Convo I like to move it to a phone conversation, keep it chill and entertaining. That has worked quite well where I got invited straight to their home! Maybe I got lucky but it worked 3 times with them being the ones to intiate the invite also . Phone conversation provide the opportunity to create a connection with very low investment from both sides . If I can't get a good conversation going then I probably wouldn't want to date them anyways.

precizs · 2022-04-24T08:14:22+00:00

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SantoSturmio · 2022-04-24T08:19:27+00:00

@OP you're only 16 you got enough time to learn so keep it calm

SantoSturmio · 2022-04-24T08:19:34+00:00

@OP you're only 16 you got enough time to learn so keep it calm

BettyBuilds · 2022-04-24T09:17:05+00:00

Really, you never owned the 20 girls so you could not loose them. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sucks though. I have been single for 6 months and only dated five times. Only one person I've met more than twice and it's just sex, nothing serious.

It is not a matter of numbers, it is meeting the right person. However cliché it is, join a club with folks who have similar interests and values. If not finding a partner, you'll at least have fun.

RambaRedd · 2022-04-24T09:31:16+00:00

Gotta work on your banter man. Think about some of the coolest men you know in real life and in media and emulate their techniques. You shouldn't be interrogating women, asking more than 2 questions at a time. Actually listen to what she's saying and try to honestly relate to her. If you can't, say that too. And sprinkle in some jokes and flirtation.

At least you're getting #s and choosing signals from women. Most men aren't even getting that believe it or not

daddysgotanew · 2022-04-24T12:40:43+00:00

There’s no such thing as “game”

You lost 20 women because they all had better options than you

Hard truth

humptyone · 2022-04-24T22:38:46+00:00

You might try talking to a friend. Get her thoughts. Theres not really any place to LEARN GAME . I e heard from girls that most guys dont pay attention in them. The guys wants the attention, just are slow returning it

PondScum420 · 2022-04-25T03:09:07+00:00

Sometimes “giving up” is the best thing you can do because then you stop “trying” to have game and act more natural

TheZimboKing · 2022-04-25T05:36:16+00:00

Read books, watch a wide variety of movies (repeat and quote snarky remarks, come-backs, exaggerations etc) and learn to banter, even with boys.

Above all, go out and learn and do shit. The more you expose yourself to the world, the more you can talk about interestingly. And I bet you are still young, so you will get good with age.

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