Has anyone paid for dating advice or a dating coach? How did it go?

kettlebell_workout · 2022-04-18T18:09:53+00:00

I did. Not worth it.

Because those guys are very fucked up and out of reality. And u don’t want to end up like them. If you really want to spend money then do it on actual therapy.

electrisio · 2022-04-18T19:20:12+00:00

By random coincidence I just did a session today with a relatively well known daygame coach in London. I feel like it was worth it, picked up a few things that I implemented that I felt improved my interactions in the session. It was good to personally talk about texting/dating as well.

I am at a intermediate level, so my approaches before were ok but there were a couple of things I could improve on. I would only recommend it after doing quite a few approaches by yourself (100+), to get to a point where approach anxiety isn’t such as problem. If your still quite anxious/inexperience, it will be difficult to implement their advice and there will be too much to learn in one go.

Overall I would recommend doing it once, with someone who is good/known but not too well known or they will be expensive. The lower level guys learn from the better guys anyway. I wouldn’t do it again as my fundamentals are there, but doing it once is worth it IMO - provided the coach is good.

hotchocalatesauce · 2022-04-18T18:57:22+00:00

I did boost my confidence but not much else. And there are better and cheaper ways to boost your confidence.

Sandvicheater · 2022-04-19T04:44:27+00:00

PUA classes are like the late nite get rich quick scheme commercials, they're selling you the dream that your overweight ugly ass can pull Victoria Secret Fashion supermodels.

Adventurous_Card_144 · 2022-04-19T06:00:15+00:00

I was living with some guys who were the real deal and offered dating coach services.

Honestly, it's not worth the money.

Why?

Most pickup coaches will charge you between 1,500-3,000 for a 3 day bootcamp.
No guarantees you will get laid,
You cannot learn anything in 3 days. It will just not stick.

Even if we had good intentions, guys won't change in 3 days. Not even in 7 or a month.

If you can hang out with guys who are good, for free, then you should do that. I actually recommend going that route if you wanna get good. But if you have to pay 3k for hanging out 3 days with them, thanks but no.

Here's what you should do if you are planning to spend that money:

Take a trip to Latin America. Preferably Colombia. Rent a nice airbnb for a month. Go out every single day to clubs and hit on girls.

A month in Colombia for me is $1.5k, I get laid (and no, no escorts here) 5-10 times regularly, per trip. Not even going crazy at it. For 3k you could probably go for 2 months, living like a king.

As you keep progressing on game you'll learn how important logistics and access is. Use your money for that, not to hire a guy for 3 days. You'll learn way more, have way more experiences and likely will get your first lay.

Good luck

WanyCaleb · 2022-04-19T13:01:11+00:00

That's the equivalent of paying for an only fans when porn is easily accessible. Personally, not worth it.

nCRedditor-21 · 2022-04-19T02:26:54+00:00

There’s a dating coach I follow named Blaine Anderson - she seems pretty authentic (and is engaged to someone so not a PUA) but her masterclasses are exorbitantly priced.

whale_sports · 2022-04-19T15:01:24+00:00

Nope...nothing anyone can tell me that 1) I don't already know, or 2) that I can find using Google.

ScrumNoobie · 2022-04-19T17:55:16+00:00

I have a free pdf ebook with 3 chapters. Last chapter will teach you everything about women. Pm me your email. You won’t have to spend a dime on coaches

Altec5499 · 2022-04-19T19:35:52+00:00

I do it for free. DM me if you’re interested

Title	Has anyone paid for dating advice or a dating coach? How did it go?
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Date	April 18, 2022 5:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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